Career Advice – Live Laugh Love Do http://livelaughlovedo.com A Super Fun Site Mon, 15 Sep 2025 01:43:49 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9 is it ever worth it to respond to rejection emails? http://livelaughlovedo.com/is-it-ever-worth-it-to-respond-to-rejection-emails/ http://livelaughlovedo.com/is-it-ever-worth-it-to-respond-to-rejection-emails/#respond Mon, 15 Sep 2025 01:43:49 +0000 http://livelaughlovedo.com/2025/09/15/is-it-ever-worth-it-to-respond-to-rejection-emails/ [ad_1]

A reader writes:

I’m in the middle of a pretty bleak job search, involving lots of form rejection emails. The first few times I got one, I wrote back a succinct note to the effect of “thank you for letting me know” before realizing how depressing this would be for all of the rejections that would soon start rolling in.

I figure most places don’t care, so I’ve stopped responding to those rejections, but I’m wondering: is it worth ever sending something polite but more personal, hoping that maybe they’d change their mind, or am I living in the job-search equivalent of a 90’s rom-com? “Gosh, we usually get crazy people who yell at us, but this person is so nice and that gosh darn it we should hire her instead!” (Career success, happiness, and extraordinary riches ensue, etc. Sandra Bullock has a cameo.)

They’re very unlikely to change their mind, even if you send an incredibly gracious and personable response back.

That said, there are times when it can make sense to do that anyway. Specifically, if you progressed to the interview stage and seemed to really click with your interviewer, it can be a good investment to send a gracious note thanking them for their time, referencing something valuable you took away from the discussion, and otherwise building on the rapport that you began in the interview. Not because you’re expecting them to change their mind, but because it might solidify you in their head as someone to think of the next time a job opens up that you might be well-matched with (or if you were a top candidate for this one and then their final choice falls through, or they want to refer you to an opening at a partner organization, or so forth).

To be clear, this wouldn’t just be a perfunctory “thanks for letting me know.” This would be a note that builds the connection in some way. (Also, if the form rejection comes from a general hiring email rather than the hiring manager’s own email, don’t just reply to that — send your message directly to the manager so they actually see it.)

It doesn’t make sense to do it if you didn’t progress to the interview stage, since in that case there’s no rapport to build on.

It’s still unlikely to result in anything, particularly a Sandra Bullock appearance, but sometimes job searching is about scattering little seeds around and seeing which ones sprout into something, and this can be one of those seeds.

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Why Gen Z can’t afford to specialize at work http://livelaughlovedo.com/why-gen-z-cant-afford-to-specialize-at-work/ http://livelaughlovedo.com/why-gen-z-cant-afford-to-specialize-at-work/#respond Sun, 14 Sep 2025 15:42:49 +0000 http://livelaughlovedo.com/2025/09/14/why-gen-z-cant-afford-to-specialize-at-work/ [ad_1]

In 2013, at the age of 22, I found myself in what many in my field would consider a dream position: working in New York City as an analyst at Goldman Sachs. The position offered everything young professionals are typically told to value: competitive compensation, a prestigious brand name, world-class offices in Manhattan, comprehensive benefits, and a clear career trajectory. I was at the epitome of certainty—or so it seemed.

Beneath this veneer of security, doubt was brewing. I recognized that my long-term skill development would become increasingly specialized, which would limit my options for the future. Specialization promised stability, but it also trapped me on a single track. And in hindsight, I’m glad I stepped off it.

THE SPECIALIZATION TRAP

In 2025,150 companies have laid off 72,808 tech workers. Many of them had developed expertise in highly specialized roles that did not easily transfer to new industries or functions.

The World Economic Forum projects that by 2030, 70% of skills used in most jobs will have changed. This means that the skills that make you indispensable right now may become obsolete in five years.

However, David Epstein’s research in his book Range shows that generalists outperform specialists in complex, unpredictable environments. This is because they can connect insights across disciplines, adapt to new contexts, and transfer skills from one domain to another.

A CAREER BUILT ON RANGE

In 2014, my friend Taylor (not his real name) told me he was confused about his career. After earning an English degree, he joined Teach for America’s prestigious program, and started teaching in an underserved community. Great on paper. However, he wondered if this was where he could make the best impact. He pivoted into coding and before long, he was landing tech roles with increasing responsibility, including working as an agile scrum master for Nike. As Taylor climbed the corporate ladder at Nike, his coding skills that got him in the door became less and less relevant.
What really mattered were the skills he’d been building outside his technical expertise, like the ability to read a room, manage diverse personalities, and find creative solutions to complex problems. His English major background, teaching experience, and coding career had each contributed uniquely to his toolkit.

THE GENERALIST SKILLS YOU SHOULD NURTURE

In my work with thousands of young professionals for Venture for Canada, I have found that while specialization holds a lot of value, the best skill in an uncertain environment is the ability to adapt, learn, and make connections across different domains.
You can build these skills by focusing on:
1) Communicating effectively: The ability to articulate thoughts clearly, listen deeply, and navigate complex interpersonal dynamics becomes particularly crucial for those embarking on their professional journeys. I have observed how young people who prioritize developing their communication skills often find themselves better equipped to weather uncertainties.

2) Building genuine connections: In the early days of fundraising for Venture for Canada, rejection letters piled up fast. But things started to turn around when I stopped trying to present a perfect facade. Instead of just running through polished pitches, I started sharing the real story—the sleepless nights, the moments of doubt, and the deep belief that kept me going despite it all. Rather than weakening my position, this honesty strengthened it.

3) Collaborating effectively: In any collaborative effort, especially in uncertain or fast-­moving environments, two things are essential: being reliable and managing conflict head on.

4) Mastering your time and focus: In his book How Will You Measure Your Life?, Clayton Christensen provides valuable insights into effective time management. He emphasizes the importance of purposeful resource allocation. This means being intentional about where you spend your time, ensuring that activities contribute meaningfully to your goals.
5) Staying curious: Curiosity allows you to reframe uncertainty not as something to fear, but as an opportunity to explore. Instead of seeing the unknown as a barrier, you start to view it as a space for possibility. Every challenge becomes a puzzle, a series of “what if”s and “why not”s waiting to be solved.

THE GEN Z ADVANTAGE

The interesting paradox is that while the career landscape is more uncertain than it arguably has ever been before, you are also better equipped to adapt than any generation before you.

Older generations did not grow up teaching themselves how to code or learning other skills through YouTube tutorials. While the landscape is more challenging in many ways, your competitive advantage is that you have grown up with unprecedented access to knowledge, tools, and global communities. You can teach yourself a skill for free online that once required months of formal training. You can connect directly with peers and experts around the world, share your work publicly, and receive feedback in real time.
If you combine your built-in adaptability with the deliberate cultivation of generalist skills, you can capitalize on the current volatility to create opportunities.

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Changing careers | Mai Tai http://livelaughlovedo.com/changing-careers-mai-tai/ http://livelaughlovedo.com/changing-careers-mai-tai/#respond Wed, 23 Jul 2025 17:16:23 +0000 http://livelaughlovedo.com/2025/07/23/changing-careers-mai-tai/ [ad_1]

Are you always day dreaming about a perfect career with your fingers crossed that it will happen some day?

London is packed with almost endless opportunities, so you can decide….are you a dreamer or a someone who will ultimately turn that dream into a reality?

 

Give your career a quick MOT check!

Try answering the following questions to check if your current profession is right for you.

  1. Would you describe your current role as your dream job

  2. Are you motivated at work?

  3. Do you feel energised most of the time?

If you answered no to the three questions above, this is a first step in admitting that something is not quite right and that you will either have to change your attitude or change your profession. There are many reasons why you may feel disengaged in the workplace. Perhaps you are feeling undervalued, have an unrealistic workload or have concerns over a lack of career opportunities. Or it might be time for a complete career change.

Mai Tai understands the diverse needs of driven city professionals and we have listed five tips to help you design a life which goes against the grain.

Tap into your passion

When you are completely changing your career path, you need to make sure you are swapping for something that you really want to do. Think about the passions you have outside of work and how they could be included in a potential career. List your desires and then assess your options. If you work so much that you are struggling to find out what your passions are. 

Ask an expert

You are not the first person to decide a career change is in order and there is help and advice available. Do some research online and offline. Alternatively, why not seek the help of a career change consultant or a life coach?

Mind the gap!

When you have identified the career, you would like to have, don’t get overwhelmed by gaps in your experiences. Acquiring an entirely new skill set takes time, but step by step, you can achieve your goals. Think about the knowledge and qualifications you need and formulate a long-term plan to acquire them. And it is not all about qualifications, sometimes work shadowing for a day or a few weeks is necessary and many companies would be willing to help out.

Getting the correct qualifications and/or skills for a career change is essential, but gaining knowledge about the wider industry is also important as it will allow you to converse with people already working in your desired sector. Try to gain a deeper understanding of challenges faced by that industry or new opportunities that might be arising, and your eagerness to become part of that industry will seem more credible.

Your CV Makeover

Once you find yourself applying for a job in the industry you would like to work in, it is time to accentuate the positive. Start with your CV. It should focus on the skills you have which are relevant to the industry, your career history should come second.

At the interview, employers can be a little nervous about someone who has decided to opt for a career change. They may question how committed you would be to your new role. It is your job to reassure them. Get prepared to tell them how your previous career enabled you to recognise that you would be suitable for the new role and tell them about your transferable skills.

Insiders tip! Shake up your entire CV by getting an experienced freelancer to re-write it for you. Check out the People Per Hour website for some of the best in town.

Get some experience

You’re probably already familiar with the phrase, “Experience in a Similar Role Required”! It can prove to be a bit of a chicken and egg situation, so be prepared to gain experience on a voluntary basis. For example, if you are looking to get into marketing, look at local organisations or charities who might be looking for someone to help them out, but cannot afford to pay. The experience will prove to be beneficial.

Our mindset towards career change is a funny old thing. Other big life decisions such as marriage or moving house, can be changed when something is not right. Yet when it comes to our career, by the age of 30, we are expected to be on the right path.

There are so many reasons why not to change career. Financial commitments, relationships, bad timing or perhaps a lack of confidence. Going against the grain takes guts and ambition, so focus on the action steps necessary for the change to take place.

Whilst some people might be prepared to take the leap, others may be motivated by the security of staying exactly where they are just to pay their mortgage. So, if you are on the fence, consider this. A recent report suggested that by 2050, up to 40% of current jobs, will no longer exist. Consequently, widening your experiences and expertise can only be a positive move in the long run.

I couldn’t find any recent stats about the number of careers someone would have in a lifetime but it doesn’t matter. Your happiness is a positive thing for everyone, especially the people that work with you!

Shar Fuller © Mai Tai Group 2018

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how to burn a bridge without regrets http://livelaughlovedo.com/how-to-burn-a-bridge-without-regrets/ http://livelaughlovedo.com/how-to-burn-a-bridge-without-regrets/#respond Mon, 14 Jul 2025 19:28:57 +0000 http://livelaughlovedo.com/2025/07/15/how-to-burn-a-bridge-without-regrets/ [ad_1]

I’m quoted in this Marketwatch story talking about how to burn a bridge with no regrets later (spurred by the Trump/Musk meltdown last month):

When it’s OK to burn a bridge at work — and how to do it with no regrets

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here’s a huge discount on the Ask a Manager job-searching bible http://livelaughlovedo.com/heres-a-huge-discount-on-the-ask-a-manager-job-searching-bible/ http://livelaughlovedo.com/heres-a-huge-discount-on-the-ask-a-manager-job-searching-bible/#respond Thu, 10 Jul 2025 05:10:34 +0000 http://livelaughlovedo.com/2025/07/10/heres-a-huge-discount-on-the-ask-a-manager-job-searching-bible/ [ad_1]

Looking for a job?

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If you’ve ever wished that you could look into the brain of a hiring manager to find out what you need to do to get hired, this is for you. Written from my perspective as a long-time hiring manager, this e-book gives you step-by-step guidance through every stage of your job search … explaining at each step what a hiring manager is thinking and what they want to see from you … from getting noticed initially, to nailing the interview, to navigating the tricky post-interview period, all the way through your offer.

You’ll learn things like:

  • what hiring managers are looking for when they ask common interview questions
  • how to talk about sensitive issues when you interview — firings, bad bosses, and more
  • how to avoid companies that aren’t a good fit
  • 6 ways you might be sabotaging your job search
  • 2 ways you can turn rejection to your advantage

Here are some things readers have said after purchasing it:

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