culture wars – Live Laugh Love Do http://livelaughlovedo.com A Super Fun Site Sun, 31 Aug 2025 06:30:07 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.1 What the Hell Is Going on With the Crosswalk Culture Wars? http://livelaughlovedo.com/relationships/what-the-hell-is-going-on-with-the-crosswalk-culture-wars/ http://livelaughlovedo.com/relationships/what-the-hell-is-going-on-with-the-crosswalk-culture-wars/#respond Sun, 31 Aug 2025 06:30:07 +0000 http://livelaughlovedo.com/2025/08/31/what-the-hell-is-going-on-with-the-crosswalk-culture-wars/ [ad_1]

Although the abject horror of “Alligator Alcatraz” is and should be the major focus of most of the terrible news coming out of Florida, my home state has been making the headlines again for another infuriating reason.

Last Thursday, August 21, people in Orlando were stunned to discover the rainbow-painted crosswalk created as part of the Pulse Shooting Memorial and designed to help honor the victims was painted over by the Florida Department of Transportation (FDOT). While I’m tempted to place all of the blame for the “crosswalk wars” chapter of our ongoing culture wars solely on Florida Governor Ron DeSantis, his order to FDOT was — at least partially — the result of an order from the Trump Administration. In July, the U.S. Transportation Secretary Sean Duffy ordered all 50 states, Washington D.C., and Puerto Rico to immediately ensure that all roads in the country are “free from distraction.”

In this vague order devoid of any particular definitions or proof of its claims, Duffy wrote, “Roads are for safety, not political messages or artwork. Today I am calling on governors in every state to ensure that roadways, intersections, and crosswalks are kept free of distractions. Far too many Americans die each year to traffic fatalities to take our eye off the ball. USDOT stands ready to help communities across the country make their roads safer and easier to navigate.”

Being that it is an obvious attempt to enable governors of states in the same culture war hell as Florida, the order doesn’t clearly define what “distractions” he means. So, in a tweet announcing the order, he wrote to make sure people didn’t miss an already explicit anti-queer dog whistle: “Taxpayers expect their dollars to fund safe streets, not rainbow crosswalks.” And of course, Governor DeSantis, the bootlicker he is, wasted no time in trying to make sure the major cities in Florida are complying with the order.

But if you know anything about the queer and trans communities throughout Florida, you know they rarely take these kinds of attacks lying down. In response to FDOT’s initial painting of the rainbow crosswalk at the Pulse memorial, people in Orlando showed up — not once, not twice, but three times — to cover the crosswalk in rainbow chalk that replicated the original painting. The threat of Orlando citizens returning over and over again to bring the rainbow crosswalk back to life became so imminent the state chose to begin allocating law enforcement resources to the area just to make sure people couldn’t chalk it up anymore.

Meanwhile, in the other major metropolitan areas with large queer and trans communities, the resistance against the Trump administration’s and Governor DeSantis’s order is just beginning to heat up. Chalked up rainbow crosswalks have been seen popping up on the west coast of Florida in Ybor City and Tampa. Responding to a letter from Governor DeSantis and FDOT that ordered all crosswalk art to be removed by September 4, the Miami Beach City Commission has vowed to resist removing the rainbow crosswalks that dot the city’s street. Miami Beach City Commissioner Joe Magazine told local reporters in Miami, “I want to show our community, the members, that this is so important, too, that we hear them loud and clear. We are here to fight for them, and we will always stand up for equality.”

Similarly, local leaders in my hometown of Ft. Lauderdale, which is home to the second biggest “gay village” in the U.S. after Provincetown, as well as local leaders in Key West and Delray Beach shared news this week that they would be joining forces to pursue an administrative appeal to the Florida Department of Transportation. At Wednesday’s Ft. Lauderdale City Commission meeting, Ft. Lauderdale Mayor Dean Trantalis said, “…we must stand our ground. We cannot allow us to be bullied into submission and to allow others to dictate what we should do in our own communities.” Although the resistance is just beginning to amp up, it seems as if most municipal leaders and local activists in cities where Florida’s queer and trans communities really thrive are on the same page about this particular issue.

South Florida’s NPR channel, WLRN, has also taken up the task of creating a living archive of threatened street art — including and especially the rainbow crosswalks. They are asking anyone from any community experiencing these kinds of threats to submit their stories and any supporting photos through a form on their website.

I generally don’t allow myself to get caught up in culture war related activity that doesn’t directly and/or immediately impact us materially. But considering Florida has been the breeding and testing ground for so many anti-queer and anti-trans policies that have been made national since the Trump administration began their reign, I think it’s important to pay close attention to how the “crosswalk wars” progress over the next few weeks.

Governor DeSantis, the Trump administration, and the rest of the far-right losers and failures who are currently trying to make our lives a living hell have explicitly said they want queer and trans people to disappear from the public eye. Sure, the dissolution of some rainbow crosswalks in various cities where they have already kind of faded into the background of people’s lives isn’t hurting anyone in the same way many of the other policies are, but these more minor attacks generally serve as the build up to much larger ones — all over the country, not just in the state of Florida.

Whatever larger attacks they have planned will most certainly have more material impacts on our lives, which means we need to keep showing them we’re not going to take it. Resistance via not giving into the demand, creating chalk murals, and through using legal channels like administrative appeals is a start. But in order to truly meet the demands of these times, we have to be unafraid to take our resistance tactics up several notches.

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Here’s Why Right-Wingers Are Celebrating White Sorority Rush Videos http://livelaughlovedo.com/culture-and-society/heres-why-right-wingers-are-celebrating-white-sorority-rush-videos/ http://livelaughlovedo.com/culture-and-society/heres-why-right-wingers-are-celebrating-white-sorority-rush-videos/#respond Sat, 16 Aug 2025 16:17:14 +0000 http://livelaughlovedo.com/2025/08/16/heres-why-right-wingers-are-celebrating-white-sorority-rush-videos/ [ad_1]

Several conservatives, news organizations and right-wing social media accounts are fighting a culture war over videos of sororities — typically majority white — doing choreographed dances for sorority rush week. But there’s one problem: There’s been no evidence of recent widespread backlash or public discourse over the videos this month. In other words… “no one cares,” as one expert in American studies says.

In a recent segment of “Finnerty” on Newsmax, host Rob Finnerty spent some time discussing a part of the sorority recruitment process, referred to as rush, as videos of female college students dancing together played on-air. Finnerty called rush “one of the great American traditions for female college students.”

“It should be OK to celebrate things that are uniquely American,” he said. “But over the past several years we haven’t done that, we’ve been scared. Scared of the backlash, scared of who we might offend, we’ve been told that what you’re seeing here is wrong.

“We were told there wasn’t enough diversity in all these videos. But all that is changing, and it’s changing because of what happened in November,” he said, referencing President Donald Trump’s presidential election.

“You can’t watch these videos without smiling,” he later continued. “And maybe wishing that you were in college. Maybe wishing that this could be you again. And that should be OK.”

Finnerty then bemoaned that the country has seen “four years of [Joe] Biden and DEI, and tremendous reverse discrimination, especially against white people — especially against white men.”

“Fun is back,” he said, before adding, “America is healing by being America again.”

Finnerty faced backlash after a clip of his on-air remarks made rounds on X. Several people pointed out that his rant on the conservative TV channel fell flat, since the supposed outrage over the sorority videos seemed manufactured — especially since sorority rush videos have been going viral on TikTok for years. Other X users thought his speech celebrating college girls dancing came off as “creepy.”

But Finnerty isn’t the only talking head who’s made an issue of these sorority rush videos in recent weeks. Former Fox News host Megyn Kelly recently celebrated the “amazing” videos on her podcast, “The Megyn Kelly Show,” saying: “Young women of America are happy to lean back into being hot and together and free and unmasked in every way.”

A new recruit of Alpha Chi Omega is photographed during University of Alabama sorority Bid Day, Saturday, Aug. 19, 2017, in Tuscaloosa, Ala.
A new recruit of Alpha Chi Omega is photographed during University of Alabama sorority Bid Day, Saturday, Aug. 19, 2017, in Tuscaloosa, Ala.

On Sunday, the official X account for Fox News tweeted a dancing sorority video, claiming that the viral clips are “making waves once more, with some calling it proof that ‘America is back,’ describing sorority girls as ‘warriors on the frontline of TikTok’ pushing back on lockdown-era culture and showing renewed Gen Z patriotism.”

Conservative radio host Jesse Kelly wrote on X last week that the “sorority dance videos are just another sign that we’re in the midst of a backlash against the ugly communists who ruled us for a short time.”

And elsewhere on X, there are countless posts claiming that the sorority rush videos are causing a “liberal backlash,” or a liberal “meltdown.” Other social media users are echoing Finnerty’s message, saying the videos are a sign that “America is back” and that the country is “healing.”

While, for years, there’s been many discussions and criticisms about the lack of diversity on display in these yearly overwhelmingly white sorority rush videos, among other criticisms about the campus culture at some of these schools, many people on social media are not buying the claims that there’s been recent waves of so-called liberal meltdowns over these videos.

“Manufactured outrage!! NOBODY gives a crap about any of this. But fox and media will sell the shit out of it and you will swallow it,” one X user wrote.

“It’s so weird that they keep saying we are outraged about shit that we are not outraged about,” wrote another.

“What does any of this have to do with conservatism?” another X user questioned.

Kari J. Winter, a professor of American studies at the University at Buffalo whose expertise includes gender, feminism, race and class, told HuffPost that Finnerty and “other MAGA folks are obviously trying to emotionally charge a trivial non-issue in order to distract us from real issues like — gee, I don’t know — the big ugly bill’s devastating impact on Americans?”

“Trump’s meeting with Putin while excluding Zelenskyy?” she continued.“Trump’s decades-long intimacy with Jeffrey Epstein? The devastating impacts of climate change? Israel’s genocidal war on Gaza?”

“Finnerty and Kelly really don’t want Americans to be asking important questions. For example, why does Trump think that building a $200M ballroom is more important than allowing Americans to keep their Medicaid insurance?” she added.

And as it relates to Finnerty’s remarks that the sorority rush videos are “uniquely American,” Winter thinks his remarks are “too idiotic to merit a response.”

Shaun Harper, a professor of education, business and public policy at the University of Southern California, said that when Finnerty and others make a point of celebrating the majority white sorority videos as proof that America is “healing,” what they’re really celebrating is “the absence of Black and brown faces in these videos, which to them looks familiar and characteristically American.”

And it’s all a tactic, Harper tells HuffPost.

“The conservative play here is predictable: lure liberals into a fight they didn’t ask for, misrepresent their critiques of exclusionary too-white spaces as wokeness, and then further convince the MAGA base that it is white Americans who are being discriminated against by policies and practices that aim to make organizations like sororities more racially diverse.”

And for those posting sorority rush videos as a way to slam the left? Winter says, “No one cares about sorority rush videos. Are you kidding me?”



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