Heya, friend! Happy late Father’s Day to ya! Hope you had a great one. Except for a brief drive out to visit the fam in the East Bay, we stayed around the house. But it was fun. Lots of high-intensity lounging, TV watching and chillaxin’…

Rosie, purr usual, spent the day working on her science experiments.

That reminds me…

Tabs wasn’t particularly interested in science or genetics like Rosie is, but he was interested in acting as a father figure to at-risk kittens and a mentor to up-and-coming kitty supermodels.

Despite his busy schedule, he always made time for the kittens in his foundation. He would read to them, do homework with them, teach them how to strut and strike poses on the catwalk — all the basic life skills.

Rosie

Rosie’s view of Father’s Day is a little different. As an introverted, more science-minded cat, she’s more interested in the genetic aspects of parentage. She was recently tapped by Genentech to lead a study into inherited traits that get passed along from father cat to kitten, so she’s been working on that all week long.

She has a theory that vertical leaping ability is closely tied to torbie fur pattern… Why Genentech is interested in that, I have no idea.

Your friendly neighborhood beauty addict,

Karen

Father’s Day always leads me to reflect on the tapestry of father figures who shaped my life. While my biological father is still with us today, his journey and ours as a family took an unexpected turn when I was eight years old.

The Father I Knew Before

Before his health crisis, my father was dynamic and ambitious, rising quickly through corporate ranks. Like many career-focused fathers of his generation, he had limited time for his children. This wasn’t unusual. His own father had been emotionally distant with a short temper. I accepted this as normal, never questioning the relationship we had.

Then everything changed. A congenital aneurysm led to a brain operation where my father nearly died. The surgeon later told us he’d held my father’s brain in his hands while placing a silver clip on the affected artery. When my father finally returned home months later, he looked the same but was fundamentally different. The ambitious executive was gone, replaced by someone who struggled to maintain employment and retreated into solitary translation work.

The Gottman Lens: Understanding Emotional Absence

Dr. John Gottman’s research shows that emotional attunement and connection between parents and children are critical for healthy development. When a parent is physically present but emotionally disconnected, what Gottman might describe as an “emotionally absent” parent, children often seek that emotional connection elsewhere.

This perfectly describes my childhood after my father’s operation. While physically present in our home, my father was emotionally unavailable. My mother, now the primary breadwinner, was physically absent for long hours. This fundamental shift upended our family’s emotional ecosystem.

Father Figures

What saved me was what Gottman might call my “emotional community,” the network of caring adults who collectively provided the guidance, support, and modeling I needed. The neighborhood literally raised us:

A neighbor who would correct us when we misbehaved outdoors, offering the boundaries I craved.

A friend’s father who greeted me with bear hugs, showing me physical affection I rarely experienced at home. His warmth taught me that men could be openly affectionate.

A Nobel laureate in economics who took me under his wing, introducing me to concepts that would later influence my career path. His intellectual guidance filled a crucial gap in my development.

One of my most profound childhood memories came when I was about seven years old, riding in the backseat of a friend’s car. I noticed something I’d never seen before: my friend’s parents were holding hands across the front seat. This simple gesture of affection between two adults completely blew my mind. My own parents were never touchy-feely, so witnessing this casual intimacy. This small but meaningful bid for connection left an impression that has stayed with me my entire life. I instantly knew this was something I would strive for in my own relationships.

These relationships weren’t mere substitutes. They were authentic connections that provided what Gottman calls “emotion coaching.” Each adult offered different pieces of the fatherhood puzzle: discipline, affection, intellectual guidance, and role modeling of healthy relationships.

Building Your Emotional Skill Set

Gottman’s research emphasizes that children need adults who validate their emotions and help them develop emotional intelligence. Through my patchwork of father figures, I received various forms of emotional education:

I learned the importance of physical touch and affirmation from my friend’s gregarious father. Every bear hug told me I mattered.

I gained intellectual curiosity and academic discipline from the economist. His patience with my questions showed me the value of mentorship.

I understood boundaries and consequences from neighbors who supervised our outdoor play. Their consistency created safety in my unpredictable world.

This diversity of influences gave me a broader emotional education than I might have received from a single father figure. Each relationship added new dimensions to my understanding of masculinity, responsibility, and care.

The Fathers We Become

Though I haven’t become a biological father myself, these collective influences formed a template for the kind of father I aspired to be: present, engaged, and emotionally available. Gottman’s research confirms that we often parent based on the models we observed, either replicating positive examples or deliberately choosing different paths from negative ones.

My experience taught me that fatherhood isn’t solely biological. It’s relational. The essence of being a father is showing up emotionally for children, providing guidance, and creating safe spaces for growth and learning. These are principles at the heart of Gottman’s approach to parenting.

Celebrating Fathers and Father Figures

As we celebrate fathers this year, I’m grateful not just for my biological father, who did the best he could with the challenges he faced, but for all the men who unknowingly shared the responsibility of guiding me to adulthood.

Gottman’s research reminds us that resilient children often find the emotional connections they need, whether through parents or other caring adults. My story isn’t one of deprivation but of abundance, finding father figures all around me when I needed them most.

This Father’s Day, I celebrate all who take on the sacred role of fatherhood, whether through biology or relationship. In Gottman terms, it’s not perfect parenting that children need, but authentic connection, and sometimes that connection comes from unexpected sources.

While recent research shows that many modern families feel increasingly isolated without the traditional “village” to help raise their children, my experience reminds us that communities of care still exist. We just might need to recognize them in new forms. Today’s children may face more structured, isolated lives than generations past, but the human need for multiple caring adults hasn’t changed.

Happy Father’s Day to all who nurture, guide, and support the next generation in whatever capacity you serve. Whether you’re a biological father, a neighbor who takes time to teach a skill, or a friend’s parent who offers a different model of relationship, you’re part of someone’s village. And in a world where connection sometimes feels harder to find, that village matters more than ever.

Not every dad wants the newest tech or a trendy subscription box. Some dads — and granddads, uncles, stepdads, godfathers, mentors — are just wired a little more classically. They like what they like. They value quality, practicality, and things that last. They may not say much, but they always show up.

This guide is for them.

From polished grooming essentials and grilling tools he’ll actually use, to timeless clothes and sentimental gifts that’ll hit him right in the feels, these are all ideas we’d give the classic dads in our own lives. Whether he raised you on Saturday morning pancakes or taught you to check your oil, we think he deserves something good this Father’s Day.

And if your guy is more of a cold-plunge-before-coffee, minimalist-desk kind of dad? We’ve got something for him too in our Father’s Day Gift Guide (Part 2 – Modern Dads).

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Style & accessories

He may not be into “fashion,” but he knows what he likes — a shirt that fits right, a pair of sneakers that go with everything, a wallet that doesn’t bulk up his pocket. This section is full of staples with staying power.

These are the pieces that make him look good and feel comfortable. From upgraded basics to surprisingly stylish dad shoes, everything here is chosen with real life in mind — and maybe a little help from the laundry fairy.

GAP Linen-Cotton Shirt

This breezy button-up is the definition of dressed-up casual. The linen-cotton blend makes it perfect for warm summer days, but it still looks polished enough for dinner with the in-laws. He may not say it out loud, but he’ll appreciate having a shirt that works for just about everything.
Pick one up at GAP

GapFit Tech Joggers

Soft, stretchy, and built for movement — or for absolutely no movement at all. These joggers work just as well for weekend chores as they do for afternoon naps. He’ll appreciate the no-fuss, easy fit, and you’ll appreciate that they don’t scream “sweatpants.”
Grab a pair from GAP

The Everyday Crewneck Tee

The name says it all. This is the kind of t-shirt that becomes an instant favorite: soft, broken-in feel without being sloppy. Add it to a gift bag with his favorite snacks and you’ve got an easy win.
Stock up at GAP Factory

Nike Dri-FIT Tee

This tee is ready for morning jogs, weekend yardwork, or just coffee on the porch. The Dri-FIT material keeps things cool and breathable, and it’s cut to flatter without being tight. A great upgrade for his go-to t-shirt rotation.
Find it at Kohl’s

Levi’s 505 Jeans

Comfortable, reliable, and still cool — these jeans have been a staple for decades. The fit is roomy without being baggy, and they’re tough enough to keep up with him for years. If he’s wearing jeans that are older than you, it might be time for a fresh pair.
Order from Kohl’s

New Balance 574s

Yes, the ultimate dad shoe — but hear us out. These New Balances are retro, comfortable, and totally back in style (not that he cares). They’re sneakers he’ll reach for daily, whether he’s running errands or supervising the grill.
Lace up at Foot Locker

Grooming & wellness

Classic doesn’t mean low-maintenance — it means he knows what works. Whether it’s a close shave, a scrub that actually makes a difference, or a vitamin routine that’s easy to stick with, these gifts are here to quietly elevate his everyday.

Maybe he’d never walk into a fancy skincare store. Maybe he still uses the same razor from your middle school years. This is your gentle nudge to upgrade him with grooming picks that deliver — no fluff, no fuss.

Harry’s Truman Shave Set

This set comes with everything he needs to upgrade his shave game: razor, extra blades, and a luxe-feeling foaming gel. It’s clean, classic, and completely dad-approved. If he’s been using the same drugstore razor since 1994, this is your sign.
Get it from Harry’s

Frank Body Scrub Club Gift Set

Coffee scrubs might not sound like a dad thing — until he tries one. This trio of all-natural exfoliating scrubs smells amazing and leaves skin genuinely soft (even if he’d never admit he cares). A surprisingly fun self-care gift.
Find it at Frank Body

Ritual Essential for Men 18+

Solid daily support for energy, immunity, and overall wellness, without any mystery ingredients. These vitamins are clean, science-backed, and easy to stick with. Great for dads who want to take better care of themselves but don’t know where to start.
Pick it up from Ritual

Moon Juice SuperYou

Stress doesn’t stop for Father’s Day — but these adaptogenic capsules can help. Designed to balance mood and energy, SuperYou is one of Moon Juice’s most-loved blends. A solid choice for dads who want a little more calm in their chaos.
Shop it at Moon Juice

Derma E Microdermabrasion Scrub

Dad’s skin deserves a little pampering, too. This dermatologist-recommended scrub uses fine exfoliants to smooth out rough skin, reduce the look of pores, and bring out a healthy glow — all in under a minute. It’s a quick upgrade to his routine that delivers results he’ll actually notice. We think it’s worth talking classic dad into adding one step in front of the sink before bed.

Grab it from Derma E

Tech & home

He may not be asking Alexa to start the sprinklers, but when the lights work on the first try? He notices. This section is for smart-but-not-fussy home upgrades that help him do more of what he already does — just a little better.

Whether he’s at the grill, locking up for the night, or setting up movie night with the family, these gifts make the everyday a bit easier (and maybe even a bit cooler).

The Abode Security Kit

If he’s even a little handy, he can set this up in an afternoon. It’s a full-featured, customizable smart security system with no confusing contracts. Peace of mind, without the hassle. We’ve investigated it before, and shared our findings here if you’re curious.
Secure it from Abode

ThermoPro Meat Thermometer

This digital thermometer is a total game-changer for grillers. Wireless, easy to use, and accurate — so the steak comes out medium-rare, not hockey puck.
Get it at Target

Weber Grill Tool Set

Three solid tools that feel like an upgrade, not a filler gift. They’re durable, balanced, and designed by Weber — so he’ll use them all summer long.
Find it at Target

Food & drink

Forget ties and toolkits — if there’s one thing classic dads really appreciate, it’s a good snack and a strong cup of coffee. Whether he’s a weekend chef or just the guy who always brings the best trail mix, these food gifts are all hits.

From premium beans to savory boxes of meats and cheeses, this section is for dads who know the joy of a well-timed treat. Add a gift tag and maybe he’ll even share.

Hair Bender Coffee Beans

This espresso roast is smooth, rich, and just complex enough to impress coffee nerds and casual sippers alike. This is their most celebrated blend, and worth the hype. He may never go back to grocery store grounds again.
Get it fresh from Stumptown

Deluxe Gourmet Meat and Cheese Sampler Gift

He doesn’t need to be the “host with the most” to appreciate this spread. With premium cheeses, dry-cured meats, and savory crackers, this box is ready for a spontaneous happy hour — or a solo snack attack. It’s a solid way to say “thanks” without wrapping a tie.
Send the Deluxe Gourmet Meat and Cheese Sampler from GourmetGiftBaskets.com

Around the World Beer Gift – 6 Beers

When dad’s passport is expired but his taste for hops is alive and well, this globally sourced beer bucket is the next best thing. Six brews from around the world come packed and chilled (literally) with snacks to match. Backyard beer tasting, anyone?
Send the Around the World Beer Gift from GourmetGiftBaskets.com

King Arthur Baking Pizza Night Gift Set

He loves pizza. He loves projects. This gift checks both boxes and gives him everything he needs for an at-home pizza night that’ll put delivery to shame.
Order it from King Arthur Baking

Sentimental

Some dads get more sentimental than they let on — and Father’s Day is the perfect time to give him something that hits in the heart, not just the hands. These picks are sweet, meaningful, and totally worthy of the man who’s been in your corner for everything.

Whether he’s a new dad still learning how to buckle a stroller strap or a granddad who reads the same bedtime story every week, these gifts help you say what really matters: we love you, and we see you.

My Dad the Superhero

This personalized book makes dad the hero of his own comic-style adventure. It’s clever, heartfelt, and sure to earn a few proud tears.
Create one at Wonderbly

Pet Dad Gift Sets

Petco offers a wide variety of gift sets for all sorts of animal owners. For the dads whose idea of a great weekend is one spent with family and pup (or cat).
Snag it from Petco

Leaps & Bounds Tug Toy 2-Pack

For the dad whose best friend has four legs and a tail. This simple two-pack of rope toys is a gift from the pup — ready for fetch, tug-of-war, or a victorious game of keep-away. It’s not just about playtime; it’s about that tail-wagging, paws-on-your-lap bond that says, you’re my person.

Grab the Tug Toy 2-Pack at Petco

Mockingbird Parent Stroller Organizer

This smart organizer attaches to any stroller and keeps all the essentials in reach. Gift it to a new dad who’s figuring it out as he goes.
Add it to cart at Mockingbird

And that’s a wrap on the Classic Dad

Every one of these picks is meant to be useful, thoughtful, and just a little unexpected — because even the most classic dads deserve something that feels just right. When you’re ready, head over to our Father’s Day Gift Guide (Part 2 – Modern Dads) for the guys who appreciate their morning espresso and their smart home sensors.

As a bisexual trans guy who really wants to be a dad and who has a really great dad myself, I have a lot of opinions about hot fathers. We’ve seen the lists of Pixar Dads We Want to Suck and Fuck (I’m looking at you, dad from Inside Out!) but I’m here to tell you about real, human fathers that I have deemed safe to thirst over this Father’s Day.

You’ll notice there are many men-who-are-famously-dads missing from this list, because this is not a list of famous men who are dads. No, this is a list of certifiably hot men who love being fathers and have respectable politics. They’re also men who I may look to for inspiration one day, if and when I become a father. They’re not perfect by any means, but they reflect a lot of the values and physical attributes that I like to see in a father.

If I have not listed your favorite hot dad, please, by all means, add them to the comment section and make sure to link their Instagram (for research).

Frank Alvarez

Frank co-hosts the Basement Yard podcast with Joe Santigato, which has become one of my favorite “boy discoveries” in transition. Best friends since grade school, both of these guys are great examples of healthy masculinity and are truly so funny. But Frank is a father of three and, as it appears to me, is a kick ass dad. He’s also a huge Wife Guy! And hot!

Dwyane Wade

Forget about his talent on the court and how sexy he is — Dwyane Wade is an exemplary father to his trans daughter, Zaya Wade. He has not only been incredibly vocal about his support of trans kids, but he has also put his money where his mouth is with the organization he founded with Zaya, Translatable.

Jason Ritter

Jason Ritter, or perhaps more commonly known to this audience as Melanie Lynskey’s husband, is a silly, goofy father with a heart of gold. He’s a sober king who loves to have fun and isn’t afraid to look the fool. Plus, that mustache!!!

Marlon Wayans

To be fair, all of the Wayans men are FINE, but I have to give a special shoutout to Marlon, who has a lesbian sister and trans kid. He’s incredibly supportive of both family members and the community at large. Sure, he sometimes takes it a tiny bit too far, but he’s a comedian, so it’s to be expected.

Dave Bautista

I’m going to go ahead and say it: I love Dave Bautista. I have never watched WWE, but I can respect what a legend he was in that sport. What I’m more interested in is Bautista’s venture into comedic acting and, more specifically, how great he is at it! Bautista is a stand up guy and father to three, and you can tell he’s got his shit together — perhaps because he was raised by a lesbian. And, ahem, muscles?!

Jesse Sullivan

Listen, we can all have our opinions about parenting-influencers and child-naming conventions, but two things are for certain: Jesse Sullivan loves the shit out of his kids, and he is insanely hot.

Mike Birbiglia

HEAR ME OUT, PEOPLE! When I think of Mike Birbiglia, I think of Dad Energy. He’s soft yet cool and is just one of those guys who you really want to like you. His kid inspires a lot of his comedy, but not in a “I hate my nagging wife and annoying kids” kind of way.

Bruce Springsteen

Bruce, The Boss, the guy every member of your family has a crush on, not only including but especially your father, has only made himself even more hot by beefing with Trump while performing in Berlin. I’ve always been a Springsteen fan, ever since my dad would take me to his concerts where he’d put me on his shoulders. I figured it was a New York/New Jersey thing. But as I get older and as I gain more gay and transmasc friends, I’ve learned Springsteen is for everyone! Plus, he’s very transparent about his own challenging relationship with his father and how therapy helped him prepare himself for fatherhood. That’s hot!

Idris Elba

Idris Elba is who my mom wishes my father was (just kidding!). I know none of us need any more reason or permission to thirst over Idris Elba, but he is yet another celebrity who speaks very openly and honestly about his relationship with his father and with his children.

Kieran Culkin

The man wears a wrist full of friendship bracelets his daughter made, for Christ’s sake. He is so dad-coded that during his acceptance speech for best supporting actor at this year’s Oscars, he asked his wife to have more kids. Sure, some people thought this was a weird move and wouldn’t want it to happen to them, but if his wife isn’t offended, then neither am I. ​​

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Father’s Day has a way of sneaking up on people. It often arrives with less fanfare than Mother’s Day—fewer flowers, fewer school crafts, maybe a few more grills and ties. And while most dads will say they don’t mind, that doesn’t mean they’re immune to feeling unseen.

This list isn’t about fancy breakfasts or backyard gadgets. It’s about connection. John Gottman’s research tells us that strong relationships are built not on grand gestures, but on small, intentional moments of turning toward one another. Father’s Day is one of those moments—a chance to notice, appreciate, and connect with the father figures in your life in ways that feel meaningful, not just obligatory.

10 ways to celebrate Dad

Here are ideas to truly celebrate Dad in a way that go deeper than the usual card and cookout.

1. Ask Him Something He’s Never Been Asked

Instead of the standard, “What do you want for Father’s Day?” try: “What kind of dad did you hope you’d be?” or “What’s something about fatherhood that surprised you?” These questions  can enhance your dad’s Love Map and your understanding of his inner world. Even dads who don’t usually emote will appreciate being seen in a new way.

2. Celebrate the Mistakes

Fatherhood is often mythologized as heroic, but real strength shows up in humility. If you’ve seen your dad own a mistake, apologize, or grow through failure…name it. Say, “I’ve always respected how you admitted when you were wrong.” It’s not about perfection, it’s about modeling repair. That’s worth celebrating.

3. Tell a Story About Him

Make a new ritual: Go around the dinner table and tell about “a time Dad showed up.” It doesn’t have to be dramatic. Maybe it’s when he taught you to change a tire. Or when he came to your game in the rain. Dr. Gottman’s research shows that stories and shared meaning deepen connection and reinforce a family’s emotional infrastructure.

4. Turn Toward His Bids (Even the Weird Ones)

When your dad starts explaining how to sharpen a lawnmower blade or raves about a documentary on train engines, don’t roll your eyes. Turn toward the bid. These small moments of engagement,  or what Gottman calls the “sliding door” moments, build trust and intimacy over time.

5. Let Him Be More Than a Role

Sometimes “Dad” becomes a job description rather than a relationship. Step back and see the whole person: his hopes, fears, quirks, desires. Compliment not just his parenting, but his presence, creativity, or quiet strength. Dads want to be known, not just needed.

6. Offer a Clean Repair

If there’s been tension or distance, consider offering a gentle repair. “I know we haven’t talked much lately, and I miss that.” Or, “I’m sorry for how I spoke to you last week—you didn’t deserve that.” Repair attempts are one of the strongest predictors of relational health. Don’t wait for perfect timing…just start.

7. Name the Invisible Labor

Not all of a dad’s efforts are visible. Maybe he’s the one who checks the locks at night, who quietly absorbs stress so others don’t have to. Maybe he sacrifices spontaneity to provide security. Noticing these quiet forms of care is a way of saying, “I see you.”

8. Invite Him to Teach You Something

Dads often feel most connected when they’re invited to contribute and to share knowledge or pass on a skill. Ask him to teach you something, even if you already know how. It’s not about the lesson…it’s about the shared experience, the transfer of meaning, and the opportunity to connect shoulder-to-shoulder.

9. Ask About His Hopes

We often ask dads about the past. Try asking about the future: “What are you looking forward to this year?” or “What’s something you still want to do?” These questions treat him as someone who is still becoming, not just someone whose story has already been told.

10. End the Day With a Toast

Seriously. Make a toast. It doesn’t have to be formal or fancy. Just a few words that say, “We see you. We appreciate you. We love who you are, and who you’re becoming.” Every dad deserves to be honored with words that carry weight, not just because he earned them, but because he matters.

Final Thoughts

Father’s Day doesn’t need to be loud. It doesn’t require expensive gifts or elaborate plans. But it does offer a rare chance to reflect on what it means to be – and to love – a dad. Whether you grew up with a father who was present, distant, flawed, nurturing, or some complicated mix of them all, cherish the opportunity to connect.

Say the thing. Tell the story. Make the toast. These are the gestures that don’t just celebrate fathers…they strengthen families.

What makes a recipe a Father’s Day recipe? According to a quick internet search, it’s meat, meat, and more meat—preferably grilled. That’s fine and dandy, but some dads may want a little more variety. To find out what Serious Eats staffers are cooking up for Father’s Day, I recently polled the staff on their dad’s favorite meals. While the results were mostly meaty, there were also plenty of comforting carbs and desserts. Below, you’ll find all the dishes our staffers plan on making for their dads this Father’s Day, including tender ribs, cheesy lasagna, and a luxuriously rich New York cheesecake.

June 2023

Modern fatherhood doesn’t look like it used to. Maybe he’s changing diapers with one hand and firing off Slack messages with the other. Maybe he’s the default parent at daycare pickup. Or maybe he’s just discovered how to connect his espresso machine to Alexa. We see you, modern dad.

This is the guide for him.

Whether he’s a wellness geek, a tech tinkerer, a minimalist dresser, or a total homebody (with the perfect wireless headphones), these gifts are smart, thoughtful, and built for the kind of guy who doesn’t need another grilling apron.

Oh — and if your guy is more analog than app-based, check out our Father’s Day Gift Guide (Part 1: Classic Dads) for all those timeless picks he’ll love.

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Grooming & Wellness

Modern dads aren’t waiting for permission to take care of themselves. They’re reading ingredient labels, learning the difference between hydration and moisture, and yes — even admitting they like a little pampering. This isn’t about vanity. It’s about showing up as your best self, even if your best self still gets toddler spit-up on your shirt.

From skincare that works without a 12-step routine to wellness boosters that take the edge off a chaotic week, these gifts support his version of self-care. Practical, low-maintenance, and secretly indulgent.

Harry’s Head to Toe Cleansers

A clean start for literally everything above your shoes. This trio from Harry’s includes their signature sudsy body wash, a 2-in-1 shampoo and conditioner that simplifies the morning rush, and a gentle exfoliating face wash that doesn’t leave skin tight or dry. It’s the complete clean without overcomplicating anything.
Grab the Head to Toe Cleansers from Harry’s

Harry’s Original 8 Blades + 1 Gel

A solid gift for dads who don’t want to mess with subscriptions — but do want a great shave. This set includes eight of Harry’s German-engineered blades and one aloe-packed shave gel that smells great and smooths skin. It’s the kind of gift that quietly makes mornings better.
Pick up the Original 8 Blades + 1 Gel from Harry’s

Frank Body Original Coffee Scrub

It’s exfoliating. It smells amazing. And it might just turn his Sunday shower into a full-blown self-care moment. If he’s skeptical, let the before-and-after skin speak for itself.
Grab it at Frank Body

Frank Body Hair Duo

The modern dad shampoo/conditioner combo that doesn’t try too hard — but still looks and smells good. It’s vegan, effective, and made to simplify his shower shelf.
Get it from Frank Body

Moon Juice Magnesi-Om

Stress management, but make it delicious. This magnesium powder supports relaxation and sleep, and comes in a berry flavor that actually tastes good. Perfect for dads trying to calm their nervous systems between meetings.
Add to cart at Moon Juice

Moon Juice Ting

This B12 energy powder gives him a clean boost without the crash. Stir it into water for an easy, jitter-free pick-me-up — especially helpful for new dads running on fumes.
Fuel him up at Moon Juice

Ritual Synbiotic+

A daily 3-in-1 probiotic that takes gut health seriously. If he’s tracking steps and watching his macros, this is a sleek addition to the lineup.
Try it from Ritual

Derma E Daily Detox Scrub

Pollution, sweat, sunscreen — modern life throws a lot at skin. This gentle exfoliator keeps his face clean without over-drying, and it’s packed with good-for-you ingredients.
Refresh his routine at Derma E

Tech & Home

For the dad who’s always setting up the Wi-Fi, syncing the Bluetooth, and troubleshooting everyone’s apps — this section is for him. Whether he’s already living in a smart home ecosystem or just loves a great gadget, these gifts make everyday life smoother and a little more fun.

We’re talking tools he’ll use, not tech clutter that ends up in a drawer. These are smart solutions for modern routines, from sleep upgrades to sleek devices that actually simplify his day.

The Abode Security Kit

If he’s even a little handy, he can set this up in an afternoon. It’s a full-featured, customizable smart security system with no confusing contracts. Peace of mind, without the hassle. We’ve investigated it before, and shared our findings here if you’re curious.
 Secure it from Abode

Eight Sleep Pod 5 Core Mattress Cover

This isn’t just a mattress topper. It’s smart temperature tech that transforms sleep quality — perfect for dads who are hot sleepers, data geeks, or both.
Upgrade his sleep at Eight Sleep

Eight Sleep Carbon Air Pillow

Supportive, breathable, and temperature-neutral — this pillow feels fancy without the fluff. A smart sleep upgrade for the guy who’s tired of flipping his pillow all night.
Check it out at Eight Sleep

Mint Mobile 3-Month Plan

Modern dads love a good deal, and Mint’s prepaid wireless plans offer premium coverage without the sticker shock. Whether he’s switching for himself or gifting it to a college kid, it’s a win.
Get started at Mint Mobile

Echo Show 5

Music, weather, alarms, video calls — all in one sleek smart display. It’s the kind of gadget he’ll use daily, whether in the kitchen or on his desk.
Find it at Target

Food & Drink

The modern dad might not be posting latte art, but he definitely knows his coffee order — and maybe even grinds his own beans. He appreciates a good snack, especially if he can sneak it in before the kids eat the last one, and he’s not above hiding the fancy granola behind the cereal boxes.

These picks are about better mornings, tastier breaks, and little luxuries that say, “we see how hard you’re working.” Because food isn’t just fuel — it’s a moment of peace in a packed day.

Stumptown Original Cold Brew with OATLY – 12 Pack

This no-fuss cold brew is smooth, bold, and blended with Oatly for a creamy, dairy-free twist on the café classic. The 12-pack is perfect for dads who want premium coffee without ever leaving the house — or waiting in line.
Get the 12-pack at Stumptown

Trade Coffee 3-Bag Gift Subscription

He chooses the roast level, they do the rest. It’s a coffee subscription that actually personalizes to his taste, delivered on his schedule.
Gift it from Trade Coffee

Kind Coffee Cooperative Coffee

Delicious, functional coffee that supports focus, digestion, and your greater good. This smooth Colombian Arabica is infused with lion’s mane mushrooms and structured aloe — no weird taste, just better mornings. Even better: every bag funds scientific research on kindness. We’ve written about them before.

Order from Kind Coffee (use code USA20 for 20% off)

Fitness & Outdoors

Modern fatherhood is active, whether he’s logging miles, chasing toddlers, or just making time for a long walk and a podcast. He’s trying to stay healthy — not because it’s trendy, but because he wants to be around for all the good stuff.

These gifts are for the dad who makes movement a part of his life. No pressure, no gym bro energy — just smart gear that helps him stretch, sweat, or hammock nap a little more comfortably.

Fit Simplify Resistance Loop Exercise Bands

Whether he’s working out at home or staying active while traveling, these resistance bands are a smart addition to any routine. Compact, affordable, and beginner-friendly.
Grab a set on Amazon

All in Motion Adjustable Dumbbell (25lb)

One adjustable dumbbell = multiple weights in one sleek piece of gear. A great solution for small spaces or minimalist setups.
Shop it at Target

Wise Owl Outfitters Hammock

Lightweight, durable, and easy to hang anywhere. Whether he’s camping or just escaping to the backyard, this hammock gives him his own little sanctuary.
Snag one on Amazon

Iron Flask 40oz Sports Water Bottle

Stainless steel, leak-proof, and stylish enough for the office or the trail. If hydration is his new personality, this bottle’s a must.
Get it at Target.com

ProsourceFit Extra Thick Puzzle Exercise Mat

This interlocking mat transforms any room into a workout zone. Ideal for home gyms, yoga, or just protecting floors from rogue kettlebells.
Add to cart at Target.com

Audio & Reading

He’s juggling the podcast queue, the audiobook backlog, and that novel he swears he’s going to finish this summer. Whether it’s background noise during chores or a chance to actually focus on his own thoughts, this is his escape.

These gifts are about tuning in or tuning out — whatever he needs. Because in the chaos of modern parenting, five quiet minutes with something he actually enjoys can feel like magic.

Apple AirPods 4

Still one of the best all-around wireless earbuds. Easy to use, easy to pair, and perfect for commuting, walking, or tuning out Bluey for five minutes.
Buy them now at Target

Anker Soundcore Bluetooth Speaker

Shockingly good sound for such a compact speaker. Toss it in his backpack or leave it in the kitchen — it’ll quickly become part of his daily routine.
Shop it on Amazon

Moleskine Classic Hardcover Journal

Old-school analog for the dad with big ideas, thoughts, or to-do lists. Clean, classic, and a welcome screen break.
Write it down with Moleskine at Target

Kindle Paperwhite

A reader’s dream: lightweight, waterproof, and backlit. If he loves to read but never knows where his book is, this is the upgrade.
Buy it at Amazon

Everyday Carry / Commuter

Diaper bag, laptop bag, snack bag — whatever he’s carrying, it’s probably more than it looks. Modern dads are multitasking pros, and the gear they rely on should make that easier, not harder.

This section is for the sleek, practical tools that help him stay organized, get out the door faster, and find his keys (finally). Because he’s doing a lot — and he deserves a setup that works as hard as he does.

Bellroy Note Sleeve Wallet

Sleek, durable, and RFID-blocking — this wallet looks grown-up without being bulky. It’s one of those “finally replaced my old one” gifts that sticks around for years.
Get it on Amazon

Orbitkey Key Organizer with D-Ring

Keeps keys quiet, organized, and streamlined. No more jingling pockets or rogue jabs to the thigh. It’s clever without being fussy.
Organize it on Amazon

Herschel Classic Backpack XL

Roomy enough for a laptop and gear, but not oversized. Ideal for commuting, travel, or even just carrying all the snacks on a family day out.
Snag it on Amazon

Nomatic Tech Organizer Case

Cords, chargers, dongles — they all need a home. This sleek little case keeps everything tidy, whether he’s heading to the office or traveling light.
Tidy up on Amazon

Tile Mate Bluetooth Tracker

Attach it to keys, a wallet, or a bag, and stop playing the “where’d I leave it” game. Works with a smartphone and saves serious stress.
Track it on Amazon

For the dad who’s not quite like the others

We see you, modern dads. You’re always evolving, always curious, always doing your best — and these gifts are a reflection of that. Whether it’s wellness, gear, or just a better way to get out the door, we hope you found something that makes him feel seen.

Now go check out Father’s Day Gift Guide (Part 1: Classic Dads) and celebrate all the ways fatherhood shows up.

I kind of feel like DIY Father’s Day gifts might be the only thing Dad wants this year?!

Dads are notoriously hard to shop for. Or at least mine is, maybe yours is too? Anytime I ask my Dad if he wants anything special (for any holiday) he always says, without fail, ‘oh I don’t need anything.’ NOT HELPFUL DAD! I NEED SOME IDEAS!

If you’re in that boat, I have you covered. Whether you’re an experienced maker or you’re helping a little one (with less experience) make something for the Father’s Day, you’ll find something here! There’s even some Father’s Day printables if you’re running low on time.

Here’s 32 DIY Father’s Day gift ideas for the ones you love…

1. rambler pants pattern from Friday Pattern Co

2. how to make drawstring shoe bags from Purl Soho

3. dit pour over coffee stand from The Merrythought

4. DIY leather wallet from Make Supply

5. shrinky dink Father’s Day tie tack from Oh Happy Day

6. Father’s Day printable cards from The House that Lars Built

7. making a custom handkerchief for Dad

8. Father’s Day fill-in-the-blank printable from Almost Makes Perfect

9. Father’s Day brunch ideas

10. Father’s Day gift wrap ideas

11. Father’s Day activity pack from The House that Lars Built

12. Father’s Day wrapping paper idea from The House that Lars Built

13. beachcomber jacket pattern from Friday Pattern Co

14. how to make a bowtie (from scratch)

15. easy leather pouch pattern

16. all about Dad printable

17. how to make a leather desk organizer from Jojotastic

18. diy bolo tie idea from The Merrythought

19. keepsake book box idea from Martha Stewart

20. Father’s Day tie to try

21. mens apron diy from She’s Got the Notion

22. making a ceramic chess set gift from Wendy Stone

23. hoe to make a custom leather flask

24. faux shibori hankies from Dad

25. Dad’s headlines idea from Hallmark

26. pinecone Father’s Day cards from Handmade Charlotte

27. pencil holder ideas from Father’s Day

28. leather projects (like a leather notebook) for Dad

29. hand drawn keychains for Dad from Scrumdilly-Do

30. sugar cookie shapes

31. father and son matching knit ties DIY from Purl Soho

32. pop art Father’s Day message

Happy Father’s Day to whoever you may be celebrating this year! And if you have any other DIY Father’s Day gift ideas, share them below. Would love to add some more to the list.

And if you’re looking for something to buy, instead of DIY, I have a Father’s Day gift guide for you as well.