Memoir – Live Laugh Love Do http://livelaughlovedo.com A Super Fun Site Tue, 14 Oct 2025 13:13:43 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.1 Lukas Gage On ‘I Wrote This For Attention,’ Julia Fox, & Lying http://livelaughlovedo.com/culture-and-society/lukas-gage-on-i-wrote-this-for-attention-julia-fox-lying/ http://livelaughlovedo.com/culture-and-society/lukas-gage-on-i-wrote-this-for-attention-julia-fox-lying/#respond Tue, 14 Oct 2025 13:13:43 +0000 http://livelaughlovedo.com/2025/10/14/lukas-gage-on-i-wrote-this-for-attention-julia-fox-lying/ [ad_1]

In One Nightstand, celebrity readers and writers join us at the blond in 11 Howard to discuss some of their favorite books, allowing us to learn about their tastes and lives in the process.

Lukas Gage has always been a natural storyteller — one who’s never let a few facts get in the way of a good story. “Growing up, I’d lie to my diary to just make my life seem more entertaining. I lied about having horses, [living] in a big mansion, and that I was on American Idol,” the actor tells Bustle. But it wasn’t until Gage started writing his debut memoir, I Wrote This for Attention, that he came to understand the impulse behind those fabrications. “Having a narrative that was my own perspective on what [was happening] was very important to me.”

That desire to shape his own story is partly why Julia Fox’s Down The Drain — her unflinching memoir about survival, identity, and self-invention — resonated so deeply with him. “She said something like, ‘Don’t let the assholes win,’ but I’ve also been the asshole,’” says Gage, 30. “We’ve all been the asshole. We’ve all been the villainous person at times. Julia’s never trying to be the hero of her story and she never plays the victim.”

Gage found a similar moral complexity in The Goldfinch by Donna Tartt. He also found himself relating to the novel’s themes of reinvention and redemption. “I’ve lived a good amount of life in all these different places and been thrown into situations that were a little insane at the time,” he says. As such, the novel’s central duo — Theo and Boris — each spoke to him in equal measure. “Both of them lived inside of me at that time.”

Another book that’s lingered with him is Barbara Kingsolver’s The Poisonwood Bible, which follows a missionary family in the Congo. “Each [family member] has such a clear voice and perspective. Some of them don’t align with other people’s perspective of what’s happening in this situation,” he says. “It’s so funny to see every person can have such a wildly different version of reality, and she does that so beautifully.”

His final pick, The Library Book by Susan Orlean, is also full of opposing accounts and contradictions, especially when it comes its central character, Harry Peak — a man who may or may not have been responsible for the 1986 fire at the Los Angeles Central Library. “At first glance, a book about the history of a library is not going to hold my interest,” he says. But once he learned about Peak, he was hooked. “The way that she writes about this troubled character who has a hard time keeping his alibi straight is just so entertaining and interesting.”

Because for Gage, a story doesn’t haven’t to be entirely true — it just has to be one hell of a ride.

Watch the full interview below.

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weekend open thread – August 16-17, 2025 http://livelaughlovedo.com/career-and-productivity/weekend-open-thread-august-16-17-2025/ http://livelaughlovedo.com/career-and-productivity/weekend-open-thread-august-16-17-2025/#respond Sat, 16 Aug 2025 09:33:25 +0000 http://livelaughlovedo.com/2025/08/16/weekend-open-thread-august-16-17-2025/ [ad_1]

Griffin, Grendel, Stella

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Book recommendation of the week: I’m Glad My Mom Died, by Jenette McCurdy. An incredible memoir about her abusive stage mom that grabs you and won’t let you put it down. (Amazon, Bookshop)

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Everything Is Final – The Minimalists http://livelaughlovedo.com/sustainable-living/everything-is-final-the-minimalists/ http://livelaughlovedo.com/sustainable-living/everything-is-final-the-minimalists/#respond Sat, 14 Jun 2025 17:12:55 +0000 http://livelaughlovedo.com/2025/06/14/everything-is-final-the-minimalists/ [ad_1]

The tenth anniversary edition of our #1 bestselling book, Everything That Remains, enhanced with a beautiful new cover, is now available in paperback, ebook, and audiobook formats.

Synopsis

What if everything you ever wanted isn’t what you actually want? Twenty-something, suit-clad, and upwardly mobile, Joshua Fields Millburn thought he had everything anyone could ever want. Until he didn’t anymore.

Blindsided by the loss of his mother and his marriage in the same month, Millburn started questioning every aspect of the life he had built for himself.

Then, he accidentally discovered a lifestyle known as minimalism … and everything started to change.

In the pursuit of looking for something more substantial than compulsory consumption and the broken American Dream, Millburn jettisoned most of his material possessions, paid off loads of crippling debt, and walked away from his six-figure career.

So, when everything was gone, what was left? Everything That Remains is the touching, surprising story of what happened when one young man decided to let go of everything and begin living more deliberately. Heartrending, uplifting, and deeply personal, this engrossing memoir is peppered with insightful (and often hilarious) interruptions by Ryan Nicodemus, Millburn’s best friend of twenty years.

Available formats: Paperback · Kindle · Audiobook

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