Having lots of money in the bank is never a bad thing. But once you’ve built up a sizable amount in savings — say, $50,000 — it’s time to ask: Is some of that money better off elsewhere?
Once you’ve built up an emergency fund (enough to cover three to six months of expenses), keeping additional cash in your savings account means you’re missing out on chances to grow your money. Here’s where to move that extra cash instead.
Here are a few strong options for earning on your excess savings:
CDs are great for getting a guaranteed return on your money. And by investing in index funds, like one that tracks the S&P 500, you can safely assume that your money will grow steadily over time — at a much better rate than a savings account.
There are a few good reasons to hold a big cash cushion. If you’re planning a large purchase or foresee a financial emergency of some kind, a larger savings account makes sense.
But beyond that, holding $50,000 or more in a basic savings account is usually more of a missed opportunity than a smart strategy.
Also, most traditional savings accounts offer interest rates below 1.00% APY. For short-term savings and emergency funds, a high-yield savings account (HYSA) is a better option. Right now, the best HYSAs are offering 4.00% APY or higher. That’s still not as high of a return as you could get elsewhere.
Lots of cash is never a bad thing, but letting your excess savings sit in a low-interest account means you’re probably missing out on long-term growth.
Once you’ve covered your emergency needs, consider shifting extra funds into CDs, IRAs, or brokerage accounts. You’ve worked hard to save up — now let that money work for you.
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Updated Content & Research FindingsAfter doing my first free Empower financial professional review back in 2014, I decided to do another investment portfolio review with them. Given the portfolio review is free for anyone with over $100,000 in investable assets, and my financial situation has changed so dramatically since then, I figured, why not spend a little time uncovering potential optimization opportunities?
I also wanted to experience the process firsthand again, in case any of you want to take advantage of their free financial review as well. Overall, I found it to be a worthwhile and educational experience. You can sign up here if interested once you’ve opened up a free account and linked your assets.
For background, I’ve been using Empower’s free wealth management tools since the end of 2012. I even consulted with them part-time in their San Francisco office in 2013 and 2014. Finally, Financial Samurai is a long-time affiliate partner.
Once you sign up for a free Empower account and link at least $100,000 in investable assets, you can schedule a free financial review. The process includes two calls â a short discovery call, followed by a recommendations call.
After scheduling my appointment, an Empower professional called to verify my identity and gain a basic understanding of my financial situation, goals, and desires. Note: you must have linked at least $100,000 in investable assets to qualify for the call.
The conversation lasted about 17 minutes. I told him my age (48), my plan to start withdrawing from my rollover IRA after 60, and my goal of maintaining a comfortable retirement with about $60,000 a year in gross income/withdrawals, supplemented by Social Security.
I didnât tell the Empower professional that I run Financial Samurai or that Iâm a personal finance junkie. This way, things were more realistic for retirement to help more people.
For the purpose of the review, I only shared my rollover IRA with about $1.5 million. This was my 401(k) that I maxed out from 1999 to 2012 before leaving my job. I converted it to have more flexibility in my investments and reduce fees. Since the conversion, I havenât contributed a single dollar.
I was curious to hear whether their recommendations were similar to how I invest my overall public investment portfolio.

A week later, we had the follow-up phone call. I logged into my Empower dashboard where I linked my IRA so he could walk me through his recommendations via slides. No video or in-person meeting was needed, which was convenient.
Based on my $1.5 million in assets, he introduced Empowerâs Private Client service, for those who have a minimum of $1 million in investable assets. As a Private Client, you get two dedicated advisors, priority access to their Investment Committee, retirement and wealth planning specialists, and even private equity investment options.

The next slide broke down my IRA allocation. I learned that 99.6% of my holdings are in U.S. assets, complete home-country bias. About 97.5% is in U.S. stocks, with the rest in cash, alternatives, international stocks, and bonds. I thought I was 99.9% in stocks.
Sector-wise:
In my mind, I just lump Google, Meta, and Netflix into âTech,â but technically theyâre Communication Services. So, my IRA is roughly 70% tech-heavy, a concentration Iâm comfortable with given my outlook.

Empower recommended a portfolio of:
Within stocks:
Although I worked in international equities for 13 years, Iâve avoided them for years due to corporate governance concerns and political risks. Except for Taiwan Semiconductor (Ticker: TSM), Iâve stayed U.S.-focused. Fortunately, that worked out well. U.S. stocks have outperformed for over a decade (though 2025 has been a rare year of international outperformance).
Within Alternatives, about 64% was in real estate (including foreign real estate), which caught my eye since ~40% of my overall net worth is already in real estate. I didnât ask which foreign markets they meant. Worth asking if you take the review.
A 20.9% gold allocation wouldâve been nice, given goldâs record 2025 performance.
At only 13.6%, the bond allocation seemed light for someone retiring in 12 years. However, if you view real estate as bonds-plus type of investment, the overall portfolio roughly resembles a 75/25 stocks/bonds mix, which feels right for someone in my position. Thatâs about my allocation in my taxable accounts too, so Empowerâs recommendation made sense.

Empowerâs Smart Weighting strategy has been around since my consulting days there. Itâs their proprietary method of constructing portfolios by evenly weighting across style, size, and sector, instead of following a market-cap index dominated by the biggest names.
The idea: diversify away from bubbles and reduce concentration risk. You end up with a more balanced portfolio that doesnât lean too heavily on a single sector like tech.
Smart Weighting is a rational, disciplined approach. However, Iâm based in San Francisco and am a strong believer in tech, so Iâm fine staying overweight. Still, if this were my only portfolio at age 48, having 70% in one sector would be considered excessive.
For instance, my IRA fell from $1,115,000 to $827,000 in 2022, a 26% drop. Thatâs nearly five years of living expenses gone in one year, if my $60,000 annual living expenses are true. If the exuberance of 1999 is truly back, my tech-heavy portfolio could easily lose 40% of its value during the next bear market.
Therefore, getting a professional review of your investments might be more important than ever.

This below chart tries to emphasize how Smart Weighting outperformed the S&P 500 during two difficult time spans (12/31/1999 â 12/31/04 and 12/31/07 to 12/31/12). However, in a raging bull market, Smart Weighting would underperform given Empower would sell your winners in order to maintain their target weightings.
The closer you are to traditional retirement and the more cautious you are about the stock market, the more Smart Weighting makes sense. Personally, I think the ideal return scenario in retirement is slow and steady returns. I do not like to see more than a 10% downward swing in my net worth in a year, which is why my net worth is so diversified.

On your call with the Empower professional, ask:
Of course, for most people, a retirement portfolio like an IRA is just one piece of the financial puzzle. Nor is optimizing it the only goal. The slide below shows how Empower can help with broader savings and withdrawal strategies, an area even the most disciplined FIRE enthusiasts often struggle with. Having professional guidance here can make a meaningful difference.

Determining how much to save for your childrenâs education is another big challenge, especially given the relentless rise in college costs and the uncertain impact of AI on future careers. Iâve explored this in detail in my post on 529 plan savings amounts by age and whether or not to superfund the 529.
For those working in tech with a large portion of compensation tied to stock options, consulting with an advisor on tax-efficient selling strategies can be invaluable. Proper timing and diversification can help reduce tax drag and lower overall portfolio risk.
Finally, estate and legacy planning may be the most overlooked yet essential area of financial management. Most of us donât like thinking too far ahead, let alone contemplating our own mortality. But having an estate planning specialist walk you through different scenarios can help you minimize estate taxes and ensure your wealth is distributed as intended.
If youâre fortunate enough to die with an estate worth more than the federal estate tax threshold (set to return to around $15 million per person in 2026), youâll want to plan carefully to reduce the 40% estate tax on every dollar above that limit. One way is through an irrevocable life insurance trust.
Being able to talk to an Empower estate planning professional as part of its service is a big value add.
Finally, we wrapped up the call by reviewing what my retirement could look like starting at age 60, just 12 years from now, if I followed Empowerâs recommendations. You can model similar scenarios yourself using their free wealth management tools by adjusting your own input assumptions.
In general, you want to target at least a 90% probability that your portfolio will support your retirement goals. Ideally, you aim for 99% to build in an extra cushion for unexpected events or lower-than-expected returns.
Based on my assumptions â spending $60,000 a year, receiving $37,416 annually in Social Security, and having ~$1,500,000 in my IRA invested per Empowerâs recommendations â Iâm comfortably on track.
In fact, if I live to age 92, the projection shows Iâd pass away with nearly $4 million left over. This result, ending up wealthier in death than at retirement, is actually quite common when following the 4% safe withdrawal rule.
Thatâs why, once you officially retire, itâs well worth conducting a detailed financial analysis of your situation and running multiple withdrawal rate scenarios. Doing so can help ensure you strike the right balance between living well today and not running out of money tomorrow.

Given I donât want to die with a net worth 2.5X higher than when I retired, I decided to bump up my annual spending from $60,000 to $96,000 and YOLO a little. Even at that level, $96,000 still represents just a 4% safe withdrawal rate if I retire at 60 with a $2.35 million portfolio.
In other words, Iâd still be projected to die with around $2.4 million left over. This is plenty of cushion to sleep well at night while enjoying life more along the way. That said, my probability of this retirement scenario coming to fruition is only 81%. So maybe I âonlyâ die with $1-$2 million instead of $2.4 million. That’s fine by me.

Overall, I thought the 40-minute free financial consultation was worthwhile for understanding where my IRA portfolio stood. It feels great knowing that if I can make it to age 60, I should have no problem spending at least $96,000 a year from my IRA portfolio alone. The projection assumes I rebalance my current highly aggressive portfolio, but since Iâve been semi-retired since 2012, Iâm not too worried.
Empower uses BNY Pershing as its custodian, so if you decide to have them manage your money, youâll simply fill out a transfer form and move your existing assets to Pershing. Having transferred over $1 million portfolios before to get a better mortgage rate, I know the process is straightforward. You just fill out a permission form online and it takes at most two weeks.
My main concern was the tax hit from rebalancing. Paying capital gains on roughly $1.2 million of a $1.5 million portfolio would sting. Thankfully, the Empower advisor reminded me that because this was my IRA, there are no tax consequences from buying or selling positions within it.
Therefore, if you are considering hiring Empower, I recommend starting with your tax-advantaged accounts. Alternatively, you could have them manage a smaller taxable brokerage account, ideally close to the $100,000 minimum. This approach helps minimize your tax liabilities.
Empowerâs fees are competitive for a full-service wealth management firm.
While nobody enjoys paying management fees, these rates are lower than big names like Goldman Sachs or JP Morgan, which typically charge over 1%, on top of the fees from the funds they invest your capital in.
I know this firsthand because I help manage a close relativeâs account for free. She moved her seven-figure portfolio from Goldman to an online brokerage account for me to manage. She was paying over 1% but was unhappy with their service and also wanted to part ways with her ex-husbandâs money management firm.
If you donât like managing your portfolio, arenât confident in investing, don’t have the time, and want holistic financial guidance, Empower is worth considering. You can try them for a year, learn from their approach, and then decide whether to continue paying or return to managing your money yourself.
Many investors have missed out on huge gains this cycle because they kept too much in cash, paralyzed by indecision. I’ve met many of them and were always shocked to see how much cash they had relative to their net worth. Hiring a disciplined advisor couldâve helped them steadily invest and build wealth.
On the flip side, some investors are too aggressive, trading too often, selling near the bottom, and leveraging near the top. These folks could also benefit from Empowerâs structured, unemotional approach to portfolio management.
For those of us who are personal finance fanatics, we can manage our own money just fine. But itâs still smart to get a professional check-up every year or two to ensure weâre on track. Markets change, risk tolerances evolve, and itâs easy to lose perspective during bull and bear cycles alike.
A free Empower financial consultation is a low-effort way to get that second opinion, and maybe uncover a few ways to optimize your wealth along the way.
Even after decades of managing my own money, I found value in getting a fresh, professional perspective. Empowerâs free financial review gave me greater clarity about my retirement plan and confidence that my current strategy still aligns with my long-term goals. Sometimes, an outside set of eyes helps you see what youâve been overlooking.
Itâs funny to think back: when I started Financial Samurai at 32, traditional retirement at 60 or 65 felt like a lifetime away. Now at 48, it suddenly feels right around the corner.
My energy isnât what it used to be, but my responsibilities have only grown with two young kids and a stay-at-home wife depending on me. The pressure to get our finances right has never been greater. Thatâs why Iâm grateful I went through another free financial review with Empower. It gave me peace of mind and I hope it does the same for you.
Readers, if you’ve had your own free financial review, what are some things you discovered about your portfolio and your overall finances? When was the last time you had a review of your finances and what did you change as a result?
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]]>Ten percent? Twenty percent? More?
Iâve written a lot about the benefits of both 401(k)s and IRAs. Weâve also looked at the emerging Roth 401(k) option and when it makes sense for young investors.
But everybodyâs next question is: âOkay, okay, but how much should I put into my 401(k)?â
One of the most popular posts in this blogâs ten-year archives is âHow Much Should Be In Your 401(k) At 30?â
I was 25 when I wrote it, trying to decide how much to contribute to my own 401(k).
But what I learned from over 200 (sometimes nasty) comments is that setting a savings benchmark by age alone is silly; no two savers are the same. You canât compare the engineer who graduated at 22 into a $65,000-a-year job with no student loan debt to a doctor who starts practicing at 29 and has $200,000 in loans. Or the social worker earning $35,000 a year and needing all of it just to eat.
You can use this basic 401(k) calculator to estimate how much you will save on your 401(k) based on your personal status:
Today I want to provide slightly more tactical advice. As a percentage of your income, how much should you contribute to your 401(k)?
Here are two rules that will apply to almost everyone:
There are lots of ratios out there recommending how to divide up your income. Some are as simple as spend 50%, save 50%. Although an admirable goal, most people will have a hard time with this. Especially in your twenties. I like 75/20/5.
But figure out the ratio youâre comfortable with. You may want to defer charitable giving until youâre debt-free. If you need most of your income to eat, it might be spend 90, save 10 or even 95/5. Thatâs okay. But you should reevaluate this as your financial situation changes and aim to get to at least 80/20.
In this example (75/20/5), if you earn $40,000, you would spend $30,000 or $2,500 a month, save $8,000 a year, or $667 a month, andâif you wantâset aside $2,000 a year for your chosen causes. Note that weâre working off of before-tax income, so that $2,500 a month for spending might be more like $2,000 after taxes).
Working backwards from this, letâs say your employer will match up to half of a 6% contribution to your 401(k). So 6% of your pre-tax income is $3,000. Your employer throws in $1,500. You put that in, and you have $3,500 left in your savings budget.
If you donât have a fully funded emergency fund, this comes next. Open a simple online savings accountâtheyâre boring, but safeâand load it with cash.
If you have plenty for a rainy day, then you return to your retirement options. If you qualify for a Roth IRA, thatâs probably where the $3,500 should go. If you donât qualify or have more than that max left to spend, return to your 401(k) and up your contributions.
The lesson is: Figure out what percentage of your income you can save in total, and allocate it appropriately:
Level 1: Max out your employer match in your 401(k). (Free money!)
Level 2: Max out your emergency savings (about six monthsâ living expenses).
Level 3: Max out your Roth IRA (up to the annual cap).
Level 4: Max out your 401(k) (up to a total limit for employee contributions).
This flowchart will also help.


If your employer matches 401(k) contributions, put in enough to get that match, even if youâre in debt.
Next, if youâre in credit card debt, stop. Put your extra money towards paying that off before making additional retirement contributions. Focus first on getting out of credit card debt and then come back.
Got student loans? Follow the above schedule anyway. Unless your private loans have double-digit interest rates, I donât recommend repaying student loans early.
Twenty percent is a great goal, but some retirement experts actually suggest saving more like 25% or even 30. Why?
You know that saying, âPast returns are no guarantee of future performanceâ? Thatâs why. Itâs true that the annual average return of the S&P 500 between 1928 and 2014 was 10%, for example. But that doesnât mean anything for future returns.
We have no way of knowing what future returns will beâthey could be 8%, they could be 4%. But the only way to hedge against an uncertain future is to save more money. The more you have, the less you need jaw-dropping returns to meet your goals.
Already have a 401(k)? While youâre researching contributions, take a minute to analyze your current holdings tooâthere could be big savings to be found.
Check out Empower for a free app that creates easy-to-understand visuals of the investments you own in your 401(k), IRA, and other investment accounts. Thereâs also Wealthfront for a great all-in-one financial app that allows account holders to take control over their finances, automate saving and investing, and manage their accounts all in one place.
Everyoneâs financial situation is different, and thus everyoneâs retirement contributions will also be different. The key is to find a ratio youâre comfortable with, but that also encourages you to save a little extra than you might otherwise. We suggest aiming for a ratio of 80/20 to start with, and upping as you can.
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]]>The government has shut down again, this time mostly over healthcare subsidies. Weâve seen shutdowns before, and weâll see more in the future.
As frustrating as they are, shutdowns remind us that uncertainty is the only constant. Instead of just surviving, I want to show you how to thrive during and after one. Out of the 750,000 federal employees furloughed, surely some of you read Financial Samuraiâand believe it or not, this could be one of the best things thatâs ever happened to you.
For everyone elseâthe non-federal workersâthe impact is usually minor: no Blue Angels rattling windows and terrifying pets, or limited access to a national park. But Uncle Sam will still collect your taxes while âessentialâ employees keep the machine running without pay.
Shutdowns split people into three groups:
Each group can either dwell on frustration or get stronger. Given there’s nothing any of us can do to prevent a shutdown or open the government back up, letâs choose stronger.
Iâve lived through enough setbacks to know everything, good and bad, is temporary. Shutdowns included.
When I walked away from my finance job in 2012 with a severance, I went from a multiple six-figure income to $0. No biweekly paycheck. No health benefits. No year-end bonus. Just silence.
The first three months were tough. I had spent my entire adult life tied to a paycheck, and suddenly the rope was cut. But once the fear wore off, the joy of freedom outweighed the loss of income. The uncertainty, instead of crushing me, became fuel. I built something more secure than my old job ever was.
A government shutdown is the same. One day the paycheckâs there. The next, it isnât. Thereâs an uneasiness if you’re living paycheck-to-paycheck. But if you play it right, this temporary disruption can spark something lasting â resilience, new income streams, and maybe even a better life.
And when the government inevitably reopens, youâll get back pay for all the time you didnât work. Not bad!
So letâs talk about how to make the most of this moment so you can not only survive, but thrive.
Not knowing how long a shutdown or downturn will last is what makes us anxious. But uncertainty is also what creates opportunity. The longest shutdown in history dragged on for 34 days in 2018.
If you can handle the idea of a month without pay, youâll already feel stronger. If you can mentally prepare for two months, youâll turn fear into confidence and come out ahead no matter what.

Furloughed employees are in a non-pay, non-duty status, which means you can work elsewhere. Some drive for Uber, deliver for DoorDash, tutor, freelance, or do handyman jobs.
Back in 2014 and 2015, I gave over 500 Uber rides to write about the experience. I earned $20â$38 an hour, and if I had really needed the money, I could have cleared close to $4,000 a month. Even at half that today, thatâs still almost $2,000, plenty to pay for groceries, utilities, and a portion of rent.
Other options: TaskRabbit, Rover, Craigslist gigs. Assemble furniture, walk dogs, teach guitar or pickleball. Every one of you has a monetizable skill. The shutdown is your permission slip to use it. Frankly, I’m shocked pickleball instructors are now charging up to $140/hour.
With a full-time job, itâs hard to pursue anything entrepreneurial. But now youâve got time and mental bandwidth.
Start that website. Create the online course. Draft the business plan. Youâll eventually get back pay when the government reopens, so you can take a swing now with little downside.
Financial Samurai was born in July 2009 during the financial crisis. Fear of layoffs pushed me to stop making excuses and start writing. When I negotiated my severance in 2012, I took some time off and then began to focus. That decision not only gave me purpose, but also created financial stability years later that I never would have imagined.
The lesson? Fear is fuel. Uncertainty can be the push you need. A shutdown is just another nudge.
One of my biggest regrets in finance was never taking a sabbatical. I was too worried about falling behind and missing out on a decent year-end bonus. Looking back, a break wouldâve extended my career and maybe even changed the timing of starting a family. Oh, to be able to have paid parental leave to raise my children would have been the best benefit.
Instead, my âmini-retirementâ began only after I permanently left my job in 2012. It was a shock at first, but it also opened up space to think about what really mattered. I wrote more. I got healthier. I spent more time with my parents and eventually started my family in 2017. If you have children, what a wonderful opportunity to spend more time with them!
So think of this shutdown as your sabbatical. Experiment with what early retirement feels like. Maybe youâll discover you love the freedom. Maybe youâll crave the stability. Either way, youâll learn something invaluable about yourself.
When the government reopens, there’s a good chance they will offer severance packages again. If you felt great during the furlough period, I’d strongly consider accepting the government buyout. It’s clear the current administration wants to shrink the size of the government. So if your finances are strong enough, you might as well oblige and go where you’re more appreciated.
If youâre still working without pay, thank you. Itâs a tough spot, but youâre not powerless.
When this is over, you’ll feel good knowing you kept the system alive when it mattered. That kind of grit has value not only in the workplace, but also in building your own financial fortress. You may even start appreciating your paycheck even more once it resumes.
One of the underrated perks of FIRE is being able to get things done during the week â no crowds, easier scheduling, and more availability everywhere. Use the government shutdown the same way. Book those doctor and dentist appointments youâve been putting off. Get your annual physical, schedule that specialist visit, or finally take care of a filling or minor procedure. If youâve been considering surgery, cosmetic or otherwise, nowâs the time to plan and recover without using vacation days.
While youâre at it, treat this furlough like a personal health bootcamp. Exercise more, cook your own meals, and focus on resetting your habits. The longer the shutdown lasts, the longer your bootcamp â and the more likely youâll come out of it stronger, leaner, and healthier. Who knows, this unexpected pause might be exactly what you needed to build lasting routines that improve your quality of life for years to come.
Even if youâre not directly affected, use this as a stress test. Ask yourself:
Shutdowns prove that nothing is guaranteed, not even a government paycheck. Build a redundancy of side incomes, cash buffers, strong relationships.
When I first left my job, I thought my passive income streams were enough. They were until our son was born five years later while both of us didn’t have jobs. During this time, some tenants moved out, while some investments underperformed. That reality check forced me to get more serious about saving more and generating extra income. It was uncomfortable, but it made me stronger.
Shutdowns come and go. What lasts is how you respond.
When the government reopens, and it always does, you can emerge stronger: with a sharper mindset, new skills, and maybe even a fresh income stream.
The 2008â2009 financial crisis felt like a disaster at the time, but it became the spark that changed my life. Losing so much money so quickly pushed me to slash expenses, save aggressively, asset allocate wisely, negotiate a severance, and ultimately start Financial Samurai. What looked like failure became the foundation of freedom.
So donât just survive. Thrive. Use this moment as proof that true freedom doesnât come from a paycheck â it comes from having options.
And when the back pay finally lands in your account, youâll know you did more than wait it out. You turned uncertainty into opportunity, the essence of a Financial Samurai.
Readers, is this latest government shutdown affecting you? If so, how are you planning to turn a suboptimal situation into an opportunity? Or are you enjoying the unexpected time off, knowing back pay is almost guaranteed once the government reopens? If you were furloughed right now, would you feel relieved or anxious?
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]]>Checking in with listeners.
In this podcast, Motley Fool co-founder David Gardner talks about a listener who says he invests $100 for each of his daughters’ birthdays, positioning them for success in their financial futures, and another listener who follows David’s advice to add up; don’t double down. David also shares some memories and reminds us that the math is always against you when it comes to sports betting. Plus, listener and host swap stories on selling Netflix (years ago) to build and buy their homes.
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A full transcript is below.
This podcast was recorded on Sept. 24, 2025.
David Gardner: One hundred and nineteen. That’s the magic number this week, 119. Because this is the 119th consecutive Rule Breaker Investing monthly mailbag. That’s nearly ten years of unbroken exchange, the final Wednesday of every month between you, my dear listener, and me the fool who gets to sit on the other end of the exchange marveling at your stories, your questions, your challenges, your inspirations, the sharing that comes my way from around the world for nine years and 11 months as of today, thank you, and thank you is going to be a recurring theme for this particular mailbag, only on this week’s Rule Breaker Investing.
Well, it’s not every week or month a new book comes out by me. Understandably, a lot of this week’s mailbag is going to be focused there. I also am guessing we might have some new listeners, an unusually high number of new listeners this week. I should explain that sound that some people love and some people don’t like at the start of my podcast. The one with the window breaking. Well, that’s not really a window breaking, that’s the sound of rules being broken. That was put in place by my original producer, Rick Engdahl. Yeah, July 2015, and we’ve been publishing a fresh new weekly podcast every week since going for the Cal Ripken streak here, never taking a week off. Yeah, that’s the sound of rules being broken. If you become a regular listener, I hope you’ll come to love it. Well, yeah, Rule Breaker Investing. The book came out just last week. It’s been a lot of fun doing media, some of it in New York City, a lot of it just sitting at my desk at home, being on people’s podcasts. We’ll talk about that a little bit this week. I’ve had a lot of fun reading reviews and if you do read the book and love it, I would even say if you hate it, I would love for you to leave a review anywhere where reviews are read. Amazon is where most people leave reviews, but I’ve read some really lovely reviews on Audible for those enjoying the audio book. But reviews help people discover books and with this, my final stock market book, I’m hoping as much of the world will discover it as possible, which means more and more people will be playing the only game that counts the long game with a strong long game. That’s my hope for my fellow humans and that’s the promise of Rule Breaker investing the book.
Thank you again for those who have already left reviews and I would love it, especially if you love it, if you’d think to leave a review somewhere online about Rule Breaker investing. This is also a fun day for me because Readwise, which is an app I’m going to explain a little bit more about in a minute, something I first started talking about a few years ago, just like Duolingo, the language learning gamified app, Readwise lives in streaks. Readwise, let me explain it now and then say why today is special. Readwise is an app, especially for those who love eBooks. I think two in 10 purchasers of books these days, nonfiction any by the eBook. Still the vast majority preferring hardback or paperback books. But for those like me who love their eBooks, as we highlight as lines jump out to us off the electronic page and you highlight it in pink or yellow or whichever color you choose, Readwise saves that. If you’re using the Readwise app, it uploads all of your highlights across all of your eBooks into the Cloud.
Then it brings those back to you ever after. You can get it as a morning newsletter, five of your favorite past quotes randomized and you can add more information or more thoughts to them. You can connect them together with other quotes from other books. It is an amazing resource, the Readwise app, and it really helped me write Rule Breaker Investing because it enabled me to save a lot of my favorite lines from books I’ve read and then bring them back into my book Rule Breaker Investing. I had a friend say, hey, David, really enjoy that. You must have used AI to source a lot of your quotes. I said back, no I didn’t use AI to source any of those quotes. It was all Readwise. I guess in a sense, Readwise, you could claim is AI, but the ability to hold and save forever the things that jump out to you in a book is such a powerful thing and my fun day to day is that I’ve now been using Readwise 999 days in a row here on Tuesday, September 23rd, 2025. When I first started talking about this app a few years ago on this podcast, you should know, I’ve stuck to my knitting. I’m eating my own dog food. I really love Readwise, clearly, because I’ve used it 999 days in a row. Shout out to Tom, Francis, Khalid, Arcia, Simon, and Mick because they are the seven other people who are tied with me at the 999 day mark because on Readwise, Lightly gamified, you can see who else has long streaks and Tom, Francis, Khalid, Arcia, Simon, and Mick. I don’t think any of you is listening to me right now, but you should know, I’m right there with you. I’m in quotes David with a little fool Imogi next to me on the Readwise standings. As this podcast comes out Wednesday, September 24th, will be my Readwise 1,000th day. But who’s counting? Before we get into our, I would say shortish mailbag this week, I want to mention there’s a bonus chapter that I’m writing for Rule Breaker Investing. If you’ve been to Rule Breaker Investing.com, you’ll see that it’s a free downloadable bonus chapter. It’s not pinned up there yet. It will by early October. But just to give you my dear listener a little inside window into what we’re doing with that, I’m basically going to make that chapter a mailbag. I’m going to take in some of the best most thoughtful questions and comments that I’ve gotten about the book and the bonus downloadable chapter will be my answers back, basically an FAQ to the book itself.
That’s where the bonus chapter is headed. I’ve already written much but I would appreciate your questions, especially next month on next month’s mailbag, [email protected] is our email address, and I would love some questions or thoughts back based on your reading of the book, because I’ll probably pull a few of the best ones and add those into the bonus chapter as well. In fact, just like software releases updated editions, I’ll probably add a little bit more into that bonus chapter over the course of the coming months version 1.1, 1.2, 1.3. Again, great questions, thoughtful challenges, anything that you enhance the experience. If you felt like the books missing something and you’d like something more, I’d love to hear from you [email protected]. We’ll talk about it on next month’s mailbag, but it might well end up in the Bonus Chapter itself. I see five mailbag items today, but first hot takes from Twitter. First one, at Sam Horn Intrigue. My author in August Sam horn Tweeting out. I am still hearing from people, Sam writes, who enjoyed that rock ‘n roll conversation as much as we did at David G Fool. Thank you for your perfect questions and for setting up that rising tide lightning round of what to say when. That was a lot of fun. Thank you, Sam horn. It was a delight to introduce you to my audience. Gotten so much good feedback. So many people have enjoyed reading your book already. Let’s do it again sometime, Sam. Thank you. matthard@307fool. Thank you, Matt. You said, love the 10 year look back. Lots will change for the companies you own, but the most important lessons are still true. Winners win, and they carry the build of your outperformance as long as you can hold on, and Matt writes hold with about 10 letter Os.
As long as you can hold on. Yeah, thank you, Matt. I’m really glad you enjoyed the 10 year look back. Again new listeners, years ago, I picked every 10 weeks on this podcast, I picked what I called five stock samplers. I’d pick five stocks to a theme. The aim was to beat the market with that sampler, and we’re now hitting the 9 year mark for the very first one. The first of those, well, that was this month’s first podcast. September 3rd, 10 years later, five stocks for the next five years. That was the first five stock sampler I ever picked. It was called Five Stocks for the next five years, and we’re reviewing those 10 years later. It does remind me that usually I go back over what we did this month. I’ll just mention, that was the first podcast this month. Then we had a Rule Breaker investing highlight reel putting together all my page Breaker previews on September 10th. We had an audio book sneak peek for anybody who might be interested in the audio book. That was an eight minute extra podcast, one of my shortest podcasts ever done just 10 days ago or so. Then of course, last week’s Market Cap Game Show Planes Stakes and automobiles with Andy Cross and Yasser El Shimi. That is the month that has been for this podcast. Matt Hard, thank you for writing in with your appreciation of the 10 year look. Every 10 weeks going forward, we’re going to go back 10 years and we’re going to learn together how those five stocks have done, why they did what they did, and let’s hope we’re beating the market. Pretty sure we will be, but not with every one of them. Well, there was one other theme to Twitter X hot Takes this month, and that was, yeah Book. I’m just going to read several off because it’s a motley array. When I said, there’s a lot of thank you this particular podcast, that’s what I want to do again. I want to thank each of you for taking the time to tweet out what you did. Happy to share some of my favorites here at the start of this month’s mailbag. Jean Marc Aas Jean Marc, you wrote, I’m going to wait to see if the reviews are good on David G Fool’s new Rule Breaker Investing book before I buy it. Said nobody ever can’t wait to crack open my new copy.
Thank you, Jean Marc. Nick Sipel at Investing Nick. In an era of fake gurus, David G is the real deal with real results delivered publicly over decades. More admirable than David’s returns though, is his work to teach investors how they can invest better. I’ll be reading David’s book next week. You should too. Thank you very much at Investing Nick. Always a pleasure, Nick. A thanks to you for helping the world invest better for making all of us smarter, happier, and richer. Thank you, Nick. At anendkatri. Anand, you kindly wrote. It feels like the best player of the game won the championship and announced the retirement and put everything in the last Masters stroke in this book. Thank you at David G Fool and at RBI Podcast, receive my copy and can’t wait to start. That’s very kind. Thank you, Anand. This is obviously somewhat embarrassing for me to read. Not every mailbag sounds like this. Otherwise, they could be cloying, but this is a special week. Carrie Huntley @chuntley1234, really appreciated. This one, Care at David G Fool. Since my Amazon pre order is on Ba Order, I decided to take a trip to a couple of Barnes and Noble locations. I was able to score a copy for myself. That preorder will be a Christmas gift for my niece and nephew. I can’t wait to get started, I especially appreciate Carrie that you took the time to take a photo, Carrie of you holding the book up in the Barnes and Noble. I see the intelligent investor hiding on a shelf just behind it. Anyway, a lot of fun to see that picture. Thanks for taking the time. I’m glad you had a Barnes and Noble near you and you could pick the book up there. I’ve been a little frustrated to see that the book sold out on Amazon the very first morning it came out.
There are more copies coming though. Everybody should know that and I guess it’s a good problem to have if you’re going to have a problem. I also want to mention how much I’m enjoying seeing the book in different places. Gilbert, another Twitter friend of mine, took a picture of Rule Breaker Investing sitting there on his chessboard. It was very artistic. I thought it made a good visual point. I just want to let all my readers know if you want to take a picture of the book in some fun, crazy place or making a fun visual point really plays well with me on social media. It is a treat to retweet those out and see that trusty little green side kick, that book appear at all kinds of different places. I’d love to see it on a ski lift here as we hit winter in the northern hemisphere. Just a couple more @emmett L Savage. Emmett Savage, David G Fool has been the most inspiring investor in my life and his new book will inspire the next generation of investors. Thank you very much, Emmett. I truly hope that is the case. That’s why I wrote it, and those words coming from you mean a lot. Finally, @raulseti, Raul, you said, My Rule Breaker investing pre order came in the mail yesterday, and I read it, cover to cover within a couple of hours. Beautiful and timeless investing wisdom in an easy to digest way, distilled differently than anyone else can. My biggest surprise was reading that David does sell underperforming businesses or for opportunity cost reasons. All this time, Raul concludes I thought he had never sold anything ever. I’m glad that you were disabused of that notion, Raul. Certainly, I’ve sold in the past. Most of the selling I’ve done, I’ve ended up regretting and I’ve certainly made that point. I once wrote a column for Motley Fool Stock Advisor members pointing out that if we at Motley Fool Stock Advisor had never once sold any of the picks that we’d made and just held every single one of them, every bad pick and every good pick right through two today, we would be ahead of where we are today and I’m still quite happy with where we are today.
There can be lots of reasons for selling. Sometimes I sell to harvest tax losses to net out a capital gain at the end of year. Sometimes I have to sell because one of my big winners just gets too big for my portfolio. It exceeds my sleep portfolio principle Number 4, and that’s the best reason of all to sell. When a stock like Amazon or Netflix blows up in your portfolio so much that you’re going to need to sell or maybe just give those shares away, which by the way, the best charitable way to give is shares of appreciated stock. I’ve done that. I bet many of you have done that too. It’s a neat trick if you can pull it. That wraps up my Twitter X Hot Takes. Let’s get in to the Mailbag now five items. Here comes Mailbag item Number 1. Thank you, Kevin McMahon. Hello, David. I recently listened to your audio book and thought it was excellent. Baseball played such a big role throughout your story. That really resonated with me since my dad and I have always shared a love for Strat-O-Matic baseball. The games and the statistics behind them have been a lifelong passion of ours. I was so excited about the book that I even became one of the first people to leave a review of it on audible. That being said, I’d like to pivot to your recent appearance on Chris Hill’s podcast Money Unplugged. As a longtime listener of Rule Breaker Investing, I was surprised by how much more I learned about you through that conversation. Highlights for me included your first memory of money, your family background, your early computer experience, your schooling, both high school and college, your journey toward a career, and of course, Kevin goes on more baseball. I especially want to call out your time in Rochester, New York. I grew up in the Finger Lakes region, Penn Yan near Rochester, so that really resonated with me. I would highly recommend not only your episode, but also the other conversations on money Unplugged. Chris Hill’s podcast is fantastic and your appearance made it even better.
Thanks again to you and the Motley Fool team for continuing to share your stories and your wisdom. Fool on. Kevin McMahon. Well, fool on back to you, Kevin. I, of course, loved reading your note. I played Strat-O-Matic baseball all throughout my youth. My brother Tom and I ran a whole league at our school. We had 11 year olds coming over to our house on weekends to bring out their Strat teams and play head to head. It was a league. We had about 20 people in it. It’s a very fond memory. I do remember my first copy of Strat-O-Matic baseball. I believe it was 1974, and two teams came in it. I got the 1974 Chicago White Sox and my younger brother, Tom, got the 1974 Atlanta Braves. He had Hank Aaron on his team. I didn’t. But I did have Dick Allen, who was just recently recognized as a Hall of Famer himself. Had a lot of fun just Tom and me playing those two teams. We had no other connection to them. We’re lifetime Minnesota Twins fans, but that is such a fun memory for me, and Strat-O-Matic baseball runs all throughout my youth. I eventually decided that pursue the pennant, which was a competing baseball product was even better, a little bit thinkier with a little bit more variety and fun. But I love dice sports games. I grew up playing all of the Strat-O-Matic games. I think at this point, Kevin, my listenership this week, maybe down to just you and me because I’m not sure anybody cares that much more about Strat-O-Matic than I do. But this is an opportunity for me to thank you for your note and to say that Chris Hill has a wonderful podcast and he sent the questions over ahead of time for his money plug podcast, and they were different from the types of questions I usually get if I’m going to be on somebody’s podcasts. I’m happy to answer investing questions all day long. Clearly, witness this podcast. But I also had a lot of fun because Chris’s questions, a lot of them are who you were and where you grew up and what you thought about things as you grew up. I think that’s why you were encountering some new biographical learnings about me, and it was my pleasure to share and keep up the great work Chris Hill with Money unplugged. Mailbag item Number 2. This one from Peter Pastrel DMD. That means, Peter, you are a dentist.
Thank you for taking the time to write in. “Dear, Motley fool”. You write, “I just received the new Rule Breaker Investing book, very excited to read it. Another point for David on Chapter 2 about not adding to your weeds and watering the roses,” Peter writes. Peter is, of course, referencing habit Number 2 of the Rule Breaker investor, which is to add up, don’t double down. I think part of the fun of this podcast going forward is, I can all of a sudden now be relating to the book itself, the six habits, the six traits of stocks, the six portfolio principles, haven’t been able to do that until now, but I think a lot of the questions and the conversation will often be about those six habits, those six traits, those six principles. Peter, you’re doing it right here. I think this is a new wave of mailbag item, and I really enjoy your thinking here. You go on. I used to always average down on my stocks that were down until I started listening to the Motley Fool around 2014. Here are two points, Peter writes. When people average down on their stock cost basis, they are basically saying, Peter writes two things. One, the market, which is generally efficient has this stock wrong. In my wisdom, this stock will go back up, so let me buy more. Not even the most seasoned investment professionals know for sure if this stock will go back up. Then Peter goes on to his point Number 2. What I’m saying by buying more of this down stock is that I’m smarter then the other billion investors that are saying this stock should be down 40% and I’m saying it will go back up a fools small F, Peter writes errand. I totally agree with David in that we should add to our winners and let the down stock go up on its own merit and not my feeble thoughts. Anyway, I bought three copies of the book, one for my son, one for myself, and one for my father for his birthday, 89 years-old today. What a great birthday present.
The Motley fool has made me wiser, happier, and richer. Thank you. Peter D Pastoral DMD. Peter, thank you. I really appreciate you sharing your thinking back. The concept of adding up is against most people’s instincts. It’s certainly, as I point out in the book, against what mutual really that they legally have to do, which is to rebalance to sell off their winners in order to add back to their losers. The idea being, of course, that those losers will come back. At least for Rule Breaker stocks, Peter, in my experience, a lot of my broken bad Rule Breaker stock picks never really do come back in any meaningful way. Rarely is there a remarkable comeback where a horse that was 15 lengths back all of a sudden comes out of nowhere with me adding to it all the way through the finish line. No, most of the time, the horses like secretariat, they get out front. They’re the ones who win the race, they win for us investors, and I’ve been trying to add to it along the course of the race. If you’ve read the book, I’m alluding to you get to invest the whole race, which is portfolio principle Number 5. Very rarely do Rule Breaker stocks make great comebacks. I think the only way really to get poor if you actually try to get poor investing in the stock market, which rises 9-10% annualized. The only real sure way to actually play that into poverty is to become hell bent on adding to a stock that’s down. As it goes down more, you add more. At that point you think, well, if I liked it at 20, I have to like it at 10, and then when it hits six, it’s a combination feeling. It’s on the one hand if I liked it at 20, and if I liked it at 10, I must love it here at six, but it also starts feeling a little bit desperate like I’m going to add money to this because if it just gets back to even, I’ll make money. I don’t think that’s a great set of investing habits. I don’t think that’s the right Rule Breaker mindset. That’s why we much prefer Peter to add up don’t double down and what you’re saying, your two points I agree with. In general, I think the market is generally efficient near term. The market has a very hard time factory in value over the long term, which is where our Alpha sits and why we beat the market and why we beat the pants off the market the longer we hold our stocks if they’re great Rule Breaker stocks. But I do think that you are going against a lot of wisdom if you start saying the market is wrong as your stock declines and you add to it on. That’s where I’ll leave it, wrapping up Mailbag item Number 2. But I have to say in conclusion, Peter, thank you so much for making a gift of my book to your dad. Happy 89 years, Mr. Pastrel.
Rule Breaker Investing Mailbag item Number 3. This one from Michael Baldwin. Thank you, Michael. You write, Hi, there. Was listening to the latest mailbag today. That would be last month, by the way, and thought I might be able to help read the question of share tracking tool. I’ll pause it there for sec. In last month’s mailbag, one of the questions was, how do you actually track your portfolio in a professional manner that is easy and enables you to know exactly how you’re doing compared to the market averages. Including complexities like adding in dividends, maybe even accounting for the implications of taxes on your portfolio performance as well. That was the question. Chief Investment Officer of the Motley Fool Andy Cross and I spoke to that a little bit. We both felt like there wasn’t a great answer, and that’s why Michael Baldwin is coming in with this note. I’ve been using Michael write share site. That’s share as in shariff stock and sight as in your eyesight, sharesight.com for many years. Michael writes, it includes pretty much all indices. It includes dividends, and has various performance tracking metrics, reports, etc. Whilst this is a dead giveaway that Michael is not writing from the United States of America. Whilst it is an Australian/New Zealand based tool for tax tracking purposes, it has taken the process of manually updating spreadsheets and trying to figure out formulas for compounding, while adding to or selling down positions, etc, completely away. I can focus on more important things. I hope this helps Michael Baldwin. First of all, Michael, yes, it does. Thank you. Thank you for sharing that. I love sharing out good solutions that fellow Fools are using and finding helpful. In particular, I think this no can help my Australian and New Zealand listeners because it sounds like that is where Sharesight comes from. Sharesight is a global tool, and anybody can go to sharesight.com and take a look at it, but it does sound like the tax tracking, if somebody wanted to do that is maybe more geared toward the other side of the planet from many of us here in the good old US of A. But it looks like a very clean tool. Clearly, it has a lot of fans, and I will say, having clicked into the pricing, the pricing is a little bit questionable to me as a capital F Foolish investor. First of all, for people who are serious, I do think it sounds pretty good. Not everybody is necessarily looking for professional level tracking of their portfolio and just noticing their pricing and plans. Anybody can use it for free. You get one portfolio that can have 10 holdings. If you pay $7 a month, that’s Australian. I think their listing is $9.33 US dollars per month, billed monthly.
Basically, pay nine bucks a month, you can track one portfolio with 30 holdings. If you pay $18 Australian, that would be $24 a month. You can track four different portfolios with unlimited holdings, and if you pay up a few more dollars than that, you get even more than that. I think in particular, what I’m looking at is paying $9 a month to track one portfolio. I’d probably be OK with that if I’m quite serious about this. My problem is you can only have 30 holdings in that portfolio. I would suggest to Sharesight that if somebody wants to track their portfolio, and I’m really speaking as an armchair investor to a lot of armchair individual investors out there, lot of us are going to have more than 30 holdings. If you’re paying attention to your GKC and I’m just going to leave that acronym there and wink at those who know what I’m talking about, you probably are going to have a growing number of holdings. You might even have well more than 30 when you start your portfolios, so you’d have to go from that $9 up to $24 monthly just to track a portfolio with more than 30 holdings. That would be my only misgiving, Michael Baldwin, but thank you for bringing Sharesight to our awareness. You concluded your note by saying, hope this helps. It did. Fool on, my friend. Let’s move on to mailbag item Number 4. Mailbag item Number 4 is from Joe. Last month’s mailbag began with this note from Joe. It was short, so I’m just going to read it again. This is what kicked off August. Hi, David. In February of this year, I turned all of my focus from sports betting to investing. I grew up in a house where we didn’t talk about money and I was clueless on the stock market. I knew I was missing something, so I decided that at the age of 43, it was time to get serious about planning for retirement. What a mistake waiting this long, but I’m glad I at least found my path now, and I’ve gotten my 10-year-old started off on the right path. Motley Fool Money and the Rule Breaker Investing podcasts were the first two that I started listening to in order to learn more. I’ve learned so much from you and your team. Thank you. Joe concluded his note shared last month with this. My question is this, he wrote, “If you were a new investor starting with your first $1,000 today, would you be more likely to invest in Rule Breaker style exchange-traded funds, ETFs, rather than in individual stocks?” Fool on.
Joe. That was the note last month, and I’m not going to re answer that. But if you’re a new listener, that conversation I had with Motley Fool Chief Investment Officer Andy Cross. Andy and I just kicking around Joe’s question, I think that’s worth listening to if you didn’t get a chance. It let off last month’s Mailbag. It was Mailbag item number 1 in fact. In fact, the podcast title of that whole mailbag was Sports Better Turned Investor. Well, let’s now get to this month’s mailbag item number 4, this one from Joe. Hi David, I just wanted to thank you and Andy for fielding my question and all of the discussion around it. I really appreciate your help and support. The book is on pre-order. I’m excited to dig more into all of it, especially the portfolio management piece. Thank you yet again and Fool on Joe. Well, I just wanted to share that Joe because I really appreciate you closing the loop. I love the journey that you’re on. My friend Alicia Aldrich here who runs Motley Fool PR. She’s been doing a lot of booking. Thank you, Alicia, for the work you’ve been putting in yeoman’s work here over the last few weeks, booking me on different shows and podcasts and that’s going to continue. Alicia dropped me a short note this week and she said, just for fun, think about sports betting versus investing because she knows I’m passionate on this topic. Alicia said Americans wagered $150 billion in 2024 on sports betting. Joe, it wasn’t just you.
Alicia went on projection show that there will be a record $30 billion in wagers just on this year’s National Football League season alone. I did include a couple of pages in Rule Breaker Investing about sports betting. I always want to point out two things. First of all, I think betting is fine. I’ve made bets myself. I think speculating is a great thing to do in life, just in moderation, of course, and also math, which is my main point about sports betting. The math is completely against you. Every sports bet is generally a 50/50 prospect. Let’s say you put down $100 with your friend. The house is going to take five or 10%, so five or 10 of your dollars just disappear, and let’s say with the $90 left, one of you is going to beat the other and walk away with their 100 plus the 90 from their friend. But if you just notice $10 disappeared from the $200 that were wagered. If you just do that for, let’s say, 20 consecutive sports bets, well, that $10 is disappearing each time, so those original 200 that were wagered are basically wiped out altogether by the house, and you’re likely to have lost money. In fact, anybody who consistently bets on sports is very likely to run an expected negative return. That means you’re losing money, not making it in volume over time. I had a lot of fun from my hotel room in New York City watching the Detroit Lions take on the Baltimore Ravens on Monday Night Football this week. It was a great game. I really enjoyed watching that game, and I really appreciate not betting on it because I didn’t have to sweat out my bet. I have had bets on games, and I often don’t enjoy the game that much because I’m just hoping that, in this case, a lot of people were hoping that the Ravens would cover their 4.5 point favorite. The Baltimore Ravens playing at home last night were a 4.5 point favorite. Half the people betting on Monday night expected the hometown Ravens to win by five points or more, half the people. History will show the Ravens did not. They lost by eight and a lot of money just disappeared overnight. Those who were betting for the lions against the spread, they’re happy, but they also paid five or 10% for the privilege of winning that bet. These days, if you invest in the stock market, commissions are down to about $0 per share, and Joe, you already know this. I’m speaking to those who may not. The stock market averages a 9-10% annualized gain. The opportunity cost that anybody in volume is paying for the privilege of getting to bet the Lions or the Ravens or whoever you’re betting on next week.
Again, if it’s all good and this is with a friend and it’s not a big amount of money for you, I’m totally fine with that, but anybody who’s taking this seriously, and I realize the whole sports media world and a lot of advertisers take betting very seriously these days, they’re really steering many people down the wrong track. If you care about your money, if you want to retire, especially if you want to retire early, I think, well, let’s just put it this way. I think you should be like Joe. Joe, thanks for your note. Fool on. Closing out this week, Rule Breaker Investing Mailbag item number 5, this one from Gorov Kumar. Gorov thank you for this wonderful note. Hello, David, and the Rule Breaker Investing team. I’ve been thinking about writing a post for the Mailbag, Gorov writes for quite some time. When I heard David on the Money and Plug podcast with Chris Hill this past week, I decided to do so and he numbers his points. One, a while back, David did a couple episodes with Jason Moser about getting kids started with investing. After listening to that episode, I decided to start investing for my girls, eight and four at the time in a custodial brokerage account. I decided at random to invest $100 for every year at their birthday in that account. $800 at their eighth birthday, 900 at their ninth, etc, and I’ve kept that going so far. The stocks that I bought in those two accounts were all Motley Fool recommendations, such as Netflix, Amazon, the Trade Desk, Mercado Libre, Starbucks, etc. I have not sold a single share in those two accounts since then. My kids accounts have done way better than my personal accounts where I’m a little more aggressive. Gorov goes on when I heard in the money unplugged episode that David, when you were managing your wife’s portfolio and your wife’s account was performing better than your account, I could totally relate to that. I want to thank you and Jason Moser for those episodes to help me get started investing for my girls.
Those accounts have turned a few hundred dollars into a substantial sum for my girls, and I’ve told them that as long as they don’t sell, I will keep investing $100 for every year on their birthday for as long as I can. I’m just going to pause it there for a sec. What a great dad. Gorov you go on. I recently asked my 17-year-old daughter because yeah, those who may not be familiar with this, that Jason Moser etc podcast that we did years ago was about nine years ago. Gorov’s eight-year-old is now 17, I want to thank Jason as well, again, and anybody who’d like to Google Rule Breaker Investing, get your kids started investing. You will find my two-part series dedicated to getting your kids started investing. Gorov, I think you’ve started to establish some of your own best practices. I love how you’ve gamified it. I love what you’ve done here. You close out point number one with this. I recently asked you write my 17-year-old daughter to calculate how long it will take for her account to turn into $1 million if we don’t invest a single cent at this pace. When she calculated that, her eyes lit up and she said something that was music to my ears. She said, Gorov writes, “Hide the username and password of this account from me and don’t give it to me when I turn 18.” Well, that was the first of Gorov’s two points. I think one of the things I love about this podcast and especially my mailbags is just getting to share other people’s great ideas, your inspirations, what you do for yourself, what you do for your kids. In this case, Gorov, I think you’ve opened some eyes and probably raised some smiles this month and probably there will be some other parents who start to do exactly what you did nine years ago.
They’ll start this week because they heard your story through this podcast. This podcast mailbag is only as good as the mail that comes in and the mail that comes in is often so very good. Let’s go on to Gorov’s second concluding point. You’re right. I’ve been investing with The Motley Fool since 2012 and done decently. In 2021, we decided to build a new house and we use proceeds from some of my winners like Netflix to build the new house. When you said on the Money Unplugged episode, don’t sell Netflix to build your house, Gorov writes my jaw hit the floor because that’s exactly what I did. I was initially very happy that I sold Netflix in 2022 when it dropped from $700 a share to $250 a share. Yeah, that happened, 2022, not so long ago. But not so happy you write now seeing it cross $1,200 a share. However, I was talking to my wife the other day and we both agreed that the new house has brought us immense happiness, and we’ve been able to create so many good memories in this house. We don’t regret the house at all, but selling winners like Netflix and Amazon, that does hurt some. Just wanted to send this note and share my gratitude for sharing your thoughts so freely. I look forward to the new episodes every week. I just received your book, Rule Breaker Investing earlier this week, finished the first two chapters. It’s a great read so far. This will make a great gift to anyone interested in learning about investing. PS Gorov writes, “My daughter, who is a high school senior is also reading this book and actually she shared a quote from this book in her college essay, which is related to investing in financial literacy.
She’s also applying to UNC Chapel Hill for the Moorhead Kane scholarship program. It was such a happy coincidence hearing on the Money Unplugged episode that you were also a Moorhead Kane scholar.” Thank you, Gorov Kumar. Thank you, Gorov. I saved this one to last because there’s a real connection across multiple dynamics here, synchronicity happening with this note, whether it was that you and I both sold some Netflix to buy our houses, and yet while that was a horrible mathematical move, neither of us regrets it because why do we invest in the first place? To buy a house, to build a house, or to put a kid through school, or to retire early. That’s why we invest. While I don’t think I’ve ever been a good real estate investor, I’ve never once regretted any house. I’ve only bought a few that I’ve ever lived in because I love living in that house. That’s why we invest. My house is much more meaningful to me than the invisible shares that I see on my brokerage statement, whether it’s printed out on paper or I’m viewing it on a glowing screen, why we invest is exactly what you shared this week. It’s not just about a house or Netflix. It’s also about a child, in this case, more than one of them and turning them on to investing. One of the main points I’ve been trying to make as I do media around New York City and the Internet’s writ large, maybe my main point is, this is what investing is. Rule Breaker Investing is just one form of it and we practice other forms just at the Motley Fool. We’re motley.
Anybody who’s been a member of ours for a long time knows not everybody at my own company would agree with me on any given stock pick or on any single page of my book. We are Motley. But I think one thing that is true of the Motley Fool and I think always will be, is that we’re there to invest. As I say habit number 3, invest for at least three years. That’s right. It’s very strange for me to do a lot of financial media when most people are traitors giving advice in the very near term about what’s going to happen this fall or in the next earnings quarter. It’s such a foreign language, I’m often speaking when I speak the language of investing, but I really hope that this book helps turn the tide for many Americans and many people living worldwide because investing is such a better practice than trading. Investing is a way better practice than sports betting, investing starting with its etymology, which I break down in the book and provide some visuals and I hope some inspiration investing is a very powerful act. It’s a beautiful word. It’s obviously one of my favorite words. Your note, Gorov Kumar is replete with investing in more than one form. I also wish the very best to your daughter as she applies for a scholarship program at UNC Chapel Hill, which improved my life in a way that I will always be grateful for. Thank you for all the tweets.
Thank you for all the mailbag items. I really appreciate. It’s obviously a special week for me. I obviously appreciate. That’s why I let off with a thank you and I’m going to close with a thank you. This is an unusual mailbag because it feels self-indulgent at different points, and I apologize if it ever did Chloe. Yeah, I hadn’t written a book though for 15 years and I’d been anticipating some of you had to all year long this past week in the book coming out. It’s understandable the mailbag would be dominated by it. By the way, just to mention something at close here that I mentioned early on, I would love for you to send me any questions that you have aroused from reading the book because I’m going to keep building out a mailbag, giving answers to the most frequently asked questions. A reminder, the Rule Breaker Mailbag happens every month thanks to this email address, [email protected]. Of course, you can also tweet us on Twitter X @rbipodcast. I want to thank my compadre, Brian Richards at the Motley of our top leaders at the Motley Fool, who has recently taken control of the @rbippodcast account. It really had been sitting dormant there for some years now, and he’s very actively using it. It’s a good follow too for Rule Breaker fans. Let’s bring on October. Shall we? Fool on.
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]]>The other evening, I went to a school reception held for parents and alumni who donated at least a certain amount in the calendar school year. It was a warm, intimate gathering where I mingled with other parents, shared stories, and listened to the head of school and a couple of trustees talk about the importance of giving. The event was not only a thoughtful way to acknowledge contributors but also a chance to learn about new school initiatives.
As I stood there, I realized just how powerful the act of giving is. When you give, you become part of something bigger than yourself. You contribute to the collective well-being of a community. You see tangible evidence of your support in the smiling faces of children, in the opportunities created, and in the positive changes made possible.
One of the main reasons Financial Samurai has remained free since its inception in July 2009 is because it feels incredible to help others solve their financial problems.
Over the past 16 years, Iâve received thousands of messages from readers whoâve built more wealth than they thought possible, found the courage to negotiate better jobs, or even retired early to pursue their passions. That, in itself, has been the greatest reward for me, far greater than any subscription fee or paywall could have provided.
But hereâs the rub: when your household consists of dual unemployed parents, donating any significant amount of money can feel daunting. As I listened to the head of school thank the donors, I couldnât help but wonder: can my wife and I really afford to donate another significant amount to the school next year?
Since our wealth isnât unlimited, we also want to set aside a similar donation for the Pomeroy Rehabilitation Center, which supports individuals with injuries and disabilities. At the same time, weâre still about $30,000 a year short of reaching our ultimate passive income number.
When you are unemployed or FIRE, every dollar you give slightly increases your chances of having to go back to work or running out of money before you die. Giving while unemployed is, in many ways, an act of faith: faith that your investments will hold steady, faith that your expenses wonât balloon, and faith that your calculations about your safe withdrawal rate are correct.
Add in the responsibility of raising children in an uncertain worldâespecially one being reshaped by artificial intelligenceâand the decision to give becomes even more complex. Itâs not just about you anymore. Itâs about ensuring your children have opportunities and will be safe.
We spend endless time debating safe withdrawal rates and the 4% Rule in personal finance circles. So when you give, that money really should come out of your withdrawal rate budget. If youâre nearing your safe limit yet still want to give, the prudent move is to trim your spending elsewhere. Otherwise, your generosity could come at the cost of your financial freedom.
And yet, even with all these considerations, the act of giving still calls to us. Why? Because the returns on givingâemotional, psychological, even spiritualâare often greater than anything you could get in the stock market.
If you’re unemployed or FIRE, here are four solutions that can help you still give.
Because my wife and I donated X amount in 2025, we agreed to cut back on other expenses by the same amount. The easiest area to slash was travel. Renting a vacation home in Hawaii for five weeks would have cost us $16,000â$26,000, depending on size and location. Instead, we stayed with family, my parents for four weeks and my auntâs beach home for one week, and saved the difference.
That savings went straight into remodeling my parentsâ in-law unit. Was it the same as sipping mai tais on the lanai of a $26,000 rental? Not even close. But it still felt meaningful. By redirecting money we would have spent on lifestyle luxuries, we were able to both give to the school and help improve my parentsâ property.
If cash flow is tight, create income streams specifically earmarked for giving. I did a stint in a fintech startup but quickly realized it wasnât for me. Afterward, I turned to personal finance consulting, helping individuals with one-on-one sessions. These not only promoted my book, Millionaire Milestones, but also generated extra income that I could donate.
Even a modest side hustle can fund meaningful donations. For someone whoâs FIRE, this is an empowering way to stay engaged, sharpen skills, and still make a difference. My wife also contributes by donating her time at our childrenâs school, a reminder that giving isnât always about money.
A tax-savvy way to give is by donating appreciated stock through a Donor-Advised Fund. You avoid capital gains taxes while the organization receives the full market value.
For example, suppose you bought Amazon stock for $10,000 a decade ago and itâs now worth $50,000. If you sold it, youâd owe over $13,000 in taxes if you live in California, leaving just $36,800 to donate. By donating the shares directly, the full $50,000 goes to the nonprofit, and you also receive a tax deduction. Thatâs a win-win.
This method is particularly attractive when youâre living off your portfolio. It allows you to be generous without putting additional strain on your withdrawal rate.
Finally, when money feels too tight, donât discount the value of your time. In fact, time is often the most precious resource you can give. Volunteering at your childâs school, mentoring young professionals, or lending your expertise to a nonprofit board can create ripple effects far larger than a check ever could.
My wife is Girl Scouts troop leader at our school and is volunteering in various other ways as well. I see the greater purpose and joy she has by being more involved. She also gets to interact more with the teachers and school administrators.
Iâve noticed that the times Iâve felt most connected to my community werenât necessarily when I wrote a donation check, but when I was physically presentâmeeting people, sharing knowledge, and helping solve problems in real time. Money supports causes. Time transforms them.
One downside of FIRE is that it can make you overly cautious and stingy. Youâre so conditioned to preserve your nest egg that generosity feels risky.
If you feel you can only live off $30,000 a year and ride a bicycle, then there’s certainly not much room in your budget to give. But ironically, giving often multiplies your returns in ways you canât predict.
Not only does it feel fulfilling, but it can also open doors you never saw comingânew friendships, opportunities, even investments.
A friend of mine once met a venture capitalist at a charity function. That connection led to an early-stage investment in Anthropic, which 12Xâd in value in less than two years. Sure, thatâs luck. But itâs luck that wouldnât have happened without showing up, giving, and engaging.
The truth is, you never know who you might inspireâor who might one day lend a hand to you or your children. Maybe one of you readers will become a bigwig 15 years from now, and if my kids are ever struggling to find work, youâll remember the value you got from Financial Samurai and give them a chance. That would be amazing.
You just never know.
At the end of the day, the exact dollar amount doesnât matter. What matters most is participation. Giving is a practice, just like investing. You may never feel like you have âenough,â but if you can find a way to giveâeven a littleâyouâll almost always end up richer in spirit.
Generosity is also contagious. When others see you give, theyâre inspired to give too. At the event, I learned some parents contributed multiple times more than we did. I felt awe at both their generosity and their good fortune. Their example reminded me that giving is a spectrum, and we all have a role to play.
Financial independence gives us freedom. But true wealth comes from using that freedom to help others. You donât need to be a billionaire philanthropist to make a difference. You just have to show up, contribute what you can, and keep practicing the habit of generosity.
And thatâs exactly what I plan to doâwith both money and timeâfor the rest of my life.
Readers, what are your thoughts on continuing to donate money while unemployed or FIRE? Is it irresponsible if you already feel on edge financially, or is giving still worth prioritizing? How do you personally find ways to keep giving when your active income dries up or becomes minimal?
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]]>If you want to FIRE, one of my regrets was pulling the ripcord too early at age 34 in 2012. Even though I started writing about FIRE in 2009 with the launch of Financial Samuraiâtrying to uncover as many blind spots as possible before taking the leapâI still feel like I made a mistake. In hindsight, I should have worked at least five more years until age 39, or even 40 before retiring.
At the time, I didnât know Iâd have a kid five years later, let alone two. Fast forward more than a decade, and with tremendous inflation, skyrocketing college costs, and never-ending healthcare expenses, the squeeze is real. If I had worked a few more years, I probably could have generated at least $60,000 more in passive income into perpetuity.
Although Iâm confident Iâll build enough wealth so my two children will never go hungry, Iâm not certain Iâll ever reach true multi-generational wealth. To me, that means having enough so that three generationsâmy family, my childrenâs families, and my grandchildrenâs familiesâwould never have to work soul-sucking jobs to survive.
Of course, multi-generational wealth isnât a necessity. Neither is the need to Fat FIRE. Our baseline expectation should be that our children grow up, achieve financial independence, and learn to take care of themselves.
But after living in San Francisco for 25 years, Iâve seen the opposite play out repeatedly. Every single neighbor Iâve ever had either still has an adult son living at home, or the son lives in a house purchased by his parents.
Iâve gotten to know many of these families. The sons all went to college and worked hard. Yet, despite their education, none of them could land jobs that paid enough to live independently with middle-class comfort. Instead, theyâve relied on ongoing financial support from their parents to make life in San Francisco work.
Given this reality, Iâm pragmatic enough to expect that the same dynamic could affect my kids. The world is only getting more competitive, with AI threatening jobs and international students filling up top university spots at the expense of Americans. Getting ahead will become increasingly difficult for the next generation.
Hence, the solution: attempt to build multi-generational wealth.
If my children donât end up needing financial support because they find well-paying jobs, build businesses, or otherwise thrive, then great. The extra wealth will simply serve as a cushion or be redirected to charity. But if they do need help, Iâd rather already have that âinsurance policyâ in place than scramble later.
Here are some reasons why you may want to build multi-generational wealth beyond simply wanting to give your kids and grandkids a head start:
Ultimately, the drive to build multi-generational wealth is usually not about greed. Itâs often about love, protection, and creating optionality for the people who matter most.
Imagine a upper middle-class lifestyle for a family of four today costing $350,000 a year before taxes. In expensive cities like San Francisco, New York, Los Angeles, Settle, or Honolulu, this level of spending provides comfort, but itâs hardly extravagant once you factor in taxes, housing, childcare, education, and healthcare.
If you happen to live in a lower-cost city, feel free to adjust the numbers to better fit your situation. The country is vast, and the cost of living varies dramatically. This is simply a theoretical exercise to illustrate how much wealth might be needed to support three generations.
Using the 4% safe withdrawal rate, hereâs how much capital is required: $350,000 á 0.04 = $8,750,000
That means one family of four today needs $8.75 million in investable assets (not including primary residence) today to generate $350,000 in annual gross spending without depleting principal. If you want to build multi-generational wealth, the decumulation of principal is not the way.
Letâs assume each of this familyâs two kids grows up, starts a family with two kids, and wants to maintain this same lifestyle. Using 3% annual inflation for 20 years: $350,000 Ă (1.03)Ë20 â $632,000
So what costs $350,000 today will cost about $632,000 a year in two decades.
At a 4% withdrawal rate: $632,000 á 0.04 = $15,800,000
Each child will need about $15.8 million in invested capital to sustain a family of four in 20 years.
Grand total = $40.35 million.
And thatâs assuming steady markets, no major financial shocks, and no lifestyle creep. To be safe, youâd want a 20â30% buffer, meaning the real target is closer to $50 million+.
Now that we’ve got the two children’s families and the current family taken care of, it’s now time to think multi-generational and figure how how much we need to save and invest to take care of their grandchildren’s families. Let us assume each grandchild has two kids and a spouse of their own.
Using the same assumptions:
$350,000 Ă (1.03) Ë 40 = $1,141,000
So by the time the grandchildren are adults, an upper middle-class family of four lifestyle could cost $1.14 million per year. Sounds kind of nuts! But the math doesn’t lie.
At a 4% withdrawal rate: $1,141,000 á 0.04 = $28,525,000
Each grandchildâs family of four would therefore require $28.5 million in capital in the future to sustain themselves.
With four grandchildren, the total comes to: $28.5M Ă 4= $114 million.
Grand total = $154.35 million.
Add a 20â30% safety buffer for market volatility, higher-than-expected inflation, or health/education shocks, and the real number pushes closer to $200 million.
Holy moly! Coming up with $154 â $200 million is a crazy amount of money. No wonder some high-income earning parents feel the angst of not being rich enough. Only CEOs, unicorn-startup founders, top athletes, or elite hedge fund managers or venture capitalists can amass that type of fortune.
So the sad reality is, even if you donât FIRE and grind yourself into dust, you still probably wonât amass multi-generational wealth anyway. Hence, think carefully about sacrificing your life to try and achieve an unlikely goal.
But hereâs the good news: In this example, you donât need to save and invest $154 â $200 million today. That figure represents the inflated future capital required to sustain everyoneâs lifestyles. What really matters is how much you’d need to set aside in todayâs dollars.
Now, $61 million is still a monster sum, but it feels a lot more approachable than $154+ million. And thatâs using a conservative 3% discount rate (equal to the assumed inflation rate).
Base amount needed today: $8.75 million (no need to discount this number)
Amount needed today based on various discount rates to take care of two more generations, 20 and 40 years in the future:
Although $20.05 ($11.3 + $8.75 needed today) to $61 ($52.5 + 8.75 needed today) million is still an enormous sum, itâs far easier to wrap your head around than $154 million.
Generating a 5%â8% annual rate of return is quite reasonable. 20-year Treasury bonds yield about 5% risk-free, while stocks have historically returned around 10% per year. My venture capital investments in private AI companies could potentially generate even higher returns.

If you want to build multi-generational wealth by continuing to work, each year of saving and investing will further strengthen your returns. For instance, saving and investing $87,500 in a single year would raise a base of $8.75 million by 1%. That 1% boost can either accelerate your path to the target or provide a valuable buffer during downturns.
Think about this type of calculation as a Coast FIRE calculation for multi-generational wealth creation. You don’t need all the money today. Instead, you need enough money to grow at a reasonable rate of return beyond your consumption rate to support your future indefinitely.
If youâd like to stress-test your own plan, hereâs a framework:
This framework lets you plug in your own numbers. If your annual expenses are $80,000 in a lower-cost city, your target will be much smaller. If you think inflation will run hotter than 3%, your target will balloon.
Now that weâve run the numbers, let me share the most straightforward way of building multi-generational wealth:Â real estate.
Once youâve gone âneutral real estateâ by owning your primary residence, aim to buy at least one rental property per child. Ideally, you purchase one when theyâre born or even years before, giving yourself more time to pay down the mortgage and let the property appreciate as your child grows into adulthood.
The next step is to acquire additional rental properties based on the realistic number of grandchildren you expect. Since the average family has about two children, you can multiply the number of kids you have by two to set this new goal.
With affordable housing locked in, life gets much easier. If you can reduce your housing expense to 10% or less of your income, financial freedom becomes almost inevitable. After all, food, clothing, and shelter are relatively inexpensive compared to housing costs. Here’s my housing expense guideline for financial independence if you want to get more in the details.
Over a lifetime of saving, investing in other risk assets like stocks, and paying off multiple mortgages with leveraged gains, youâll give yourself a strong chance of creating multi-generational wealth. And even if you fall short, youâll still leave behind the most important foundation: paid-off shelter so your children and grandchildren will always have a roof over their heads.
This is the hard truth: FIRE and multi-generational wealth are competing goals. FIRE is about quitting early to maximize your time. Multi-generational wealth is about working longer and compounding capital across decades.
You canât maximize both at once unless youâre an ultra-high earner or build a billion-dollar company. For the rest of us, the trade-off is clear:
Iâve made peace with the fact that I may never hit multi-generational wealth to fully fund my grandchildrenâs futures. And thatâs OK.
My first job is to provide for my kids and raise them to be financially independent. If I can also build a cushion for my grandchildren, wonderful. If not, Iâll leave behind values like hard work, frugality, and investing â traits that may end up being more valuable than money itself.
After going through this exercise, I’ve realized there’s no way Iâd be willing to work another 20 to 30 years just to build multi-generational wealth for my grandchildrenâs family. I’ll leave that responsibility for my kids, if that’s what they want to do.
FIRE may make building multi-generational wealth impossible. But that doesnât mean FIRE is a mistake. It just means you need to be clear-eyed about the trade-offs. Retiring too early cuts off the compounding engine that dynasties rely on.
The best we can do is strike a balance: build enough wealth to enjoy freedom today, while still setting up a foundation for the next generation. Anything beyond that is gravy.
Readers, what assumptions do you use for inflation, investment returns, and spending in your financial independence calculations? Do you think about building multi-generational wealth, or do you believe kids should be fully on their own? Why do you think people get upset at others for running financial simulations to see how much wealth they can build over a lifetime?
If you see any math or logic errors with my above calculations, please feel free to point them out and I’ll correct them.
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]]>Welcome to Money Diaries where we are tackling the ever-present taboo that is money. Weâre asking real people how they spend their hard-earned money during a seven-day period â and weâre tracking every last dollar.
Today: a server who makes $45,000 per year and who spends some of her money this week on a dry sheet mask from Ulta (she added it to her cart so she could get free shipping for her face wash).
Occupation: Server
Industry: Service industry
Age: 30
Location: St. Petersburg, FL
Salary: $45,000
Assets: Checking: $2,588.54; savings: $4,000.88; brokerage account: $65,000 (from my parents, given to me when I was 25). I have an undisclosed amount of Bitcoin in a Coinbase account (more than the brokerage), several pieces of Cartier jewelry that would probably hold their value if I had to sell them, and I own my own car but have been driving it since 2013, so it is worth very little.
Debt: $0
Paycheck Amount (2x/Month): $900-$2,000
Pronouns: She/her
Monthly Expenses
Housing Costs: My half of $1,800 rent (I live with a roommate in a two-bedroom, one-bathroom. Water is included, so it fluctuates by $50 or so per month).
Loan Payments: $0
Phone: $40
Internet: $60
Electricity: $227 this month (summer in Florida. I live on the second floor of a 40-year-old wooden structure).
Hello Fresh: ~$60 for two meals a month.
Streaming Services: $35.45 (I split some subscriptions with my brother).
Frame.io: $15 (for video editing work).
Apple & Google Storage: ~$5
Was there an expectation for you to attend higher education? Did you participate in any form of higher education? If yes, how did you pay for it?
There was definitely an expectation to go to college. I chose a college based on how much money they gave me in scholarships. I wanted to owe my parents as little as possible. I wanted to study marine biology and move out of my home state, so I only applied to coastal schools. My tuition was fully paid for through scholarships that the school gave me. My parents gave me an account of $35,000 when I graduated high school and that was basically the extra money I had to live on throughout college, although my parents paid for my dorm housing and meal plan the first two years. I worked in a marine bio lab all four years, but it was for career experience more than the very small amount of money I earned. Halfway through my undergraduate degree, I applied for and won a nationally competitive marine biology scholarship. It was enough to pay for my living expenses for the rest of college. After undergrad, I attended a PhD program for environmental/cultural anthropology for a year. It was fully funded, and I paid for living expenses through being a teaching assistant and doing private admissions test tutoring. My PhD program wasnât what I thought it would be and I became disillusioned with academia, so I dropped out. The rest of my twenties were a very circuitous adventure. At the age of 30, I am running up against some pretty persistent depression and really evaluating what my values and goals are at this point in my life.
Growing up, what kind of conversations did you have about money? Did your parent(s) educate you about finances?
Although my dad made a decent amount of money in the finance industry, he emphasized that I would be expected to pay my own way as an adult. I went to a private Christian school and we watched Dave Ramsey videos in class. That was my financial education, and although both myself and my parents use credit cards, I still probably derive a lot of my money habits from Dave Ramsey. It works fine as a money philosophy for personal finances. Hasnât steered me wrong, anyway.
What was your first job and why did you get it?
The summer after I graduated high school, I worked as a teaching assistant at a sailing day camp on a lake in Tennessee. Best summer of my life. I got the job because I wanted to keep going to the camp but Iâd aged out of being a camper, so being a teaching assistant was the next logical step.
Did you worry about money growing up?
No. I was privileged. Really privileged. When I was 10 we went on vacation to Hawaii and England in one year. I learned how to ski at Deer Valley and Steamboat Springs. Then 2008 hit and my parents had to downsize their house, and it caused a lot of tension in the household. But at the end of the day, we always had more than enough money.
Do you worry about money now?
Yeah, kinda. But since I am secretly sitting on a lot of emergency cash in accounts that are under my name, I donât ever really worry about money. I just donât want to fuck up and have to use my brokerage account or Coinbase account for some kind of preventable money emergency.
At what age did you become financially responsible for yourself and do you have a financial safety net?
Since age 20, when I won a big scholarship. I started paying for my own housing and living expenses after that. While my parents expect me to take care of myself, I know they would step in if I had an emergency.
Do you or have you ever received passive or inherited income? If yes, please explain.
My dad handed over brokerage accounts totaling about $60,000 to my younger brother and me when we were 25 and 22 respectively. It was money heâd invested in some sort of tax-free inheritance account. I think it is supposed to be our inheritance from him: He said it was to pay for my wedding, a graduate degree, a down payment on a house, or whatever expenses Iâd need as a young person. Iâve been sitting on it so far. I have held onto my Bitcoin money throughout years of ups and downs, and the result is that now my Coinbase account is my biggest asset. HODL.
10 a.m. â I wake up to my alarm, lol, and wake my boyfriend B. shortly after. I am hungover from going to drag queen bingo at a tiki bar last night and then drinking at my boyfriendâs bar until he closed at 1 a.m. I drop an Alka-Seltzer tab into a water bottle to nurse myself back to health. Today is a day off for both of us, and we are driving two hours to Orlando to pick up two new foster birds for the parrot rescue I am associated with. This is quite early for my bartender boyfriend. I hurry to throw our dishes from the day before into the dishwasher while he is getting dressed. We listen to folk music on the drive, starting with âJudy Blue Eyesâ by Crosby, Stills, and Nash. B. sleeps most of the drive. I stop at Smoothie King and grab us two Strawberry Hulks (plus a vitamin shot, since I have been murdering my immune system with alcohol this weekend) and some chili lime protein chips because I am curious if they resemble Takis in any way (they do, I would recommend). $28.70
11:30 a.m. â The twenty-dollar bill I shelled out for cheap gas near my place of work this weekend is not going to get us to Orlando and back, so I stop at a relatively cheap gas station outside of Orlando to fill up. $48.64
1 p.m. â We stop at the home of a long-time parrot rescue foster lady, who gives me a motherly hug as I step through her door. She immediately introduces me and B. to our new little fosters, two Pacific parrotlets, the smallest species of parrot. They are brother and sister, and the girl weighs less than an ounce. Their current foster mom is getting her house remodeled this summer, so she needs someone to take them for a few months. They are too cute.Â
3 p.m. â When we get home we struggle to get the brother bird into his cage because he runs and hides under the TV stand. Turns out their flight feathers are clipped so instead of flying up high to get away from us he hides like a hamster. B. and I give up trying to get him and watch the Ahsoka TV show on the couch until little man comes out of hiding. I put a little play stand on the floor with some seeds and sure enough he explores it, and then starts climbing the charging cables at the base of my TV stand. Heâs climbing on my ancient Wii remotes when Iâm finally able to pick him up. I have in mind to do a bunch of chores but all I do is get my sheets in the wash. I have a king-sized bed with a white duvet cover, so I am able to use a little bleach to keep it fresh. I have to haul my laundry to my apartment laundry room and pay for it, ew. $3
7 p.m. â B. and I both have a craft beer given to me for my birthday by our favorite beer bar, then B. is like, âWe need to eat,â so we make a quick reservation at a nice Italian place where he used to work. I was too busy organizing the new bird toys to notice the time so I donât get a chance to shower before dinner. Just spray on a bunch of perfume, this 30-year-old bottle of YSL Paris that my mom gave me. It smells very â80s. We kind of feel like celebrities rocking up to the restaurant. The manager was at the host stand and gave us both big hugs, and something like three servers came over and talked to us. One of the things I admire about B. is that he is a mega extrovert and knows people everywhere we go. We have dirty martinis and our favorite dish on the menu: short rib agnolotti. Itâs decadent. We finish off the meal with a glass of Sicilian red wine. I try to pay to thank B. for wrangling the bird cages and taking a four-hour road trip but he venmos me half the tab. $109.84
11 p.m. â We hop over to a bar weâve never tried before. It is camping themed (???), but super super cute. As I had hoped, they have a toasted-marshmallow cocktail. Our friends get off work and come over and we ended up doing a shotski of Rumple Mintz. Zingy. B. pays for drinks. After that, we meet up with like the whole back of house of the Italian restaurant at our favorite late-night haunt. They have food but I am still stuffed from dinner so we just got more drinks, which I purchase. I fly too close to the sun by drinking a Beeâs Knees which is basically all gin. Next thing you know I fall and skin my knee like a child. I do not remember the car ride home. I donât even remember that we rewatched the first episode of Foundation until the next day. B. throws my sheets in the dryer while the episode plays. $27.88
Daily Total: $218.06
12 p.m. â After waking up I water the herbs on my balcony, play with the birds, eat a bagel and cream cheese, make tea, play with the birds some more, and doom scroll. I cancel Netflix even though I think they already charged me for the month last night. There isnât anything I feel like watching on there right now.Â
3 p.m. â B. is way too snuggly so I get back in bed with him after chugging water and the next thing you know it is 3 p.m. During our bed snuggle time we were on our phones and sometimes I was reading my book, Speaker For The Dead by Orson Scott Card. I try explaining the plot to B. At one point I go and get my new girl bird and brought her into my room. I basically just stare at her and tell her sheâs the cutest and most beautiful animal I have ever seen, because itâs true. Bird adoration time. B. and I keep falling back asleep and I dream that Hunter Schafer was my roommateâs best friend and that they were telling me I was doing a bad job of keeping the house clean. My guilty conscience speaking through Hunter Schafer dreams?? I have a roommate, and I am pretty sure she is out of town this week because I havenât seen her in days. She is the program coordinator for the nonprofit that one of my college friends founded.Â
7:30 pm â I buy a new face wash on Ulta because I am almost out. I also buy a sheet mask to get free shipping. Found a coupon code to get $3 off. I eat vitamins and take my medicine like 12 hours late. I am Prozac currently. Also birth control. I am very calm on Prozac but unfortunately I also donât feel like doing anything. I am content to stare at a wall. Itâs kind of disturbing. $41.24
10 p.m. â I take a shower and have leftover agnolotti and tom yum-flavored instant ramen for dinner in bed. I read more Speaker for the Dead, which is turning into a seriously interesting book.Â
Daily Total: $41.24
10 a.m. â I get up and drive down to Sarasota for a mentorship job I have through my friendâs nonprofit. I am mentoring the summer media intern. I help her troubleshoot in the editing software and give notes on her work.
2 p.m. â I feel really down today and I have for a few weeks â my mom is going through a hard time â so I decide to clear my schedule in the evening and take mushrooms. Iâve had them in my bedside table for almost a year now and I want to use them before they expire. When I get home I make lunch for me and my birds. We sit together on the couch and eat. I literally just make rice with soy sauce and drink a glass of milk. Better to take shrooms on a relatively empty stomach. I have âchopâ for the birds, which is a mix of grains, nuts, fruits, and vegetables that is finely chopped up and kept in the freezer for storage. I eat my shrooms, mixing them with hot water, lemon juice, and chopped fresh ginger root to make a tea. I keep watching Andor and the shrooms start hitting right at the final episode. Oh my god.
8 p.m. â I keep having to pause the show to ponder. Itâs storming outside, and when the rain quiets down I decide to open my balcony door and sit in the thick humidity. I eat more mushrooms, making this witchesâ brew of mushrooms, ginger, lemon, apple cider vinegar, a splash of olive oil, chili powder, the flavor packets from tom yum ramen, and a clove of raw garlic. In my heavy-tripping state, the taste is glorious. Itâs like the most flavorful thing I have ever tasted. Iâm making a spicy savory brew every time I want to eat shrooms from now on. I go full Boo Radley and quietly sit on my porch, hoping no one sees me and knows Iâm high. I sip my brew, feel the swirl of the weather, and look at the tiny herb sprouts in the pots on my porch. Then I go back inside and finish Andor and start Rogue One, and boy, Iâm really feeling the plight of the Rebel Alliance. I was locked in. I have a headache once I come down, but I drink some water and try to relax my jaw.
Daily Total: $0
12 p.m. â I have a protein bar and a glass of milk for breakfast. I take a shower and call my mom while I finish getting ready for work.Â
4 p.m. â I go to work at the restaurant. I clock in at 4 p.m. and go to get my work shirt from the storage room. (They dry clean our uniform shirts). They serve us âfamily mealâ in the hour before the restaurant opens. Todayâs is really good, actually, pasta with a creamy mushroom sauce (lol) and meatballs. While the restaurant is slow, I drink a cup of English breakfast tea from the coffee station.Â
7 p.m. â Itâs B.âs day off, so he comes in and eats dinner at the bar while I am working. We actually get fairly busy for a Thursday night, and I make okay money: $194 in credit card tips and $75 cash. I estimate about $65 in hourly pay, bringing me to $334 gross pay for the day.
11 pm â B. has befriended one of the bartenders and we go out with him and his girlfriend after I get off work. We head out to what I honestly think of as a pretty bland sports bar, but our friends want to play darts and they have $4 draft beers. I have a Yuengling. I suck at darts. Iâm better if Iâve had more to drink. Iâm still pretty exhausted from the shroom trip, so I am basically falling asleep after two games. Itâs almost 2 a.m. anyways so I convince B. to drive us home. B. paid for drinks tonight.
Daily Total: $0.00
12 p.m. â B. and I sleep in until noon, as is our habit. We get up and start playing with the birds. I am determined to see if any of them want to be friends with each other. So far no luck. I snuggle with one of the shyer birds until he gets fed up and flies away. B. wants to watch Starship Troopers, which I describe as âlike Enderâs Game but worse.â I mean to do chores but I am way too distracted by the movie.Â
1 p.m. â We have Lucky Charms for breakfast. B. snacks on goldfish and I eat a Nutty Buddy bar. We have a pretty unhealthy diet, Iâll admit it.Â
3 p.m. â I start falling asleep on his lap until he reminds me that itâs 3 p.m. and I need to get ready for work. I wash my hair. I usually wash it about twice a week, sometimes three times. Itâs used to that amount of washing. I rock up to work with my hair still wet, and see my coworker doing the same thing as we walk through the door. âWet hair gang,â I say.
4 p.m. â I forgot that I left my makeup bag in my bathroom cabinet instead of my work bag, so no makeup for me tonight. Family meal is just fried chicken and fries, not even a salad today, which is pretty disappointing. I have two drum sticks and a glass of root beer since everyone freaking took the fries before I had a chance to grab any. Iâm in a good section tonight, even though we are fully in slow season here in St. Pete. Winter is where we make all our money; the snowbirds are down at their winter houses and they have the real money. They all leave to go back up north around April, when it becomes hot again. In June it is unbelievably hot and humid, and also stormy in the evenings, so people are less likely to come out to eat. Still, I made $265.44 credit card tips and $60 cash, with around $70 in hourly, so a total of $395.55 for the night.
11 p.m. â I am super hungry after work so I go to my favorite late-night spot and get fish dip. I donât like hanging out at bars alone so I get the food to go along with some corn dog nuggets for B. I drink a pint of Guinness while I wait for the food, and I do end up seeing people from two different restaurants that I know. Small city! I go to B.âs bar to drop off his food and hang out for a bit. It is popping off of course, and I sit next to this super drunk couple that keeps giving me and B. weird compliments. I drink a gin and tonic. B. pays. $43.99
2 a.m. â I get home and eat fish dip in bed while watching a makeup tutorial on YouTube. I put on my French pharmacy retinol tonight because it has this heinous texture (like vaseline) and I donât want to get it all over B. when he sleeps over (itâs the A313 pomade, itâs inexpensive and it works, but the texture sucks). B. is closing down the bar at 3 a.m. tonight so I know heâll sleep at his place.Â
Daily Total: $43.99
12 p.m. â I wake up at, you guessed it, noon again (although I have been randomly waking up between 4 a.m. and 6 a.m. the past few nights and I just watch YouTube until I fall back asleep). I get up and play with the birds, thawing out more chop for them and replenishing their supply of seeds and pellets as well. I make myself some chai tea from this huge bag of loose tea that my friend brought me from India, and I have some oatmeal. I haul two weeksâ worth of laundry to the apartment laundry room and start a couple of loads. Itâs $1.50 per load of wash or dryer, except for the front loading washers, which are $1.75. $9.50
4 p.m. â I am a little bit late for work because I was FaceTiming with a friend and lost track of time. Luckily no one says anything. The family meal is interesting⌠a salad plus brats and some kind of unidentified meat (roast beef?) in spicy sauce. Towards the end of my shift the kitchen gives me a piece of grilled sourdough and some meatballs, and my server coworker shares some lamb chops with me. I made $242 credit and $45 cash. With about $70 in hourly, that comes to $357 for the night.
11 p.m. â I head over to B.âs bar after work and drink a Surfside (B. pays). Itâs very busy in there so I finish the can quickly. I wander through the crowded dance floor and out to the backyard, where to my delight I see a food truck with spam musubi on the menu. Iâm still full from my meatball and lamb chop feast, but I really want to try their musubi, so I get it to go. I head home and am in bed around 12:30 a.m. Despite closing the bar, B. comes over at like 4 a.m. and startles me awake (I sense a 6â5â figure standing over me in my sleep and it spooks me). We stay up chatting for about an hour and then fall back asleep. $5
Daily Total: $14.50
11 a.m. â B. and I wake up âearlyâ and go get brunch with my friends. We go to my favorite spot and get a table outside. One of our friends is super late, so I end up having a spicy Bloody Mary after my boozy coffee while waiting for my eggs, sausage, and toast. I pay for B. and me with a hundred-dollar bill that I traded in for change with another server last night. $93
8 p.m. â B. and I end up going home and watching Fight Club before he has to leave for work. I fold my laundry while we watch. After B. leaves I call my dad (itâs Fatherâs Day, but he lives out of state), and clean my apartment. I tidy up and do a deep vacuum. I drink two craft beers from my fridge while vacuuming and by the time Iâm done I get a snapchat of B. at work from one of my friends. I end up putting fun makeup on (hot pink shadow and winged eyeliner) and heading out. B. takes my car to work so I order an Uber. $16.90
10:30 p.m. â I eat my spam musubi while waiting for the Uber. Itâs amazing. Itâs a friendâs birthday and we all end up getting pretty drunk and go get drinks and dance at the gay bar across the street. By the time B. gets off work itâs around 3 a.m., and we head to drop off the barâs cash at the bank and get late-night pizza and cheesecake (B. pays). I think we ended up watching Star Wars: Episode IV while eating pizza when we got home. B. carries me to bed. $34
Daily Total: $143.90

Weekly Total $$ Spent: $461.69
Food & Drink: $342.41
Entertainment: $0
Home & Health: $12.50
Clothes & Beauty $41.24
Transportation $65.54
Other $0.00
âMy conclusions are 1. My income-to-spending ratio is better than I thought, at least this past week, and 2. I drink a lot. I think Iâve been drinking more than usual the past few weeks because I have some family issues going on. But still. I canât be crashing out regularly.â
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]]>I havenât checked my net worth for four months until recently. That wasnât on purpose, because normally, since 2012, I check at least three times a week using Empowerâs free app. The only reason I stopped was because I could no longer log in.
One day, I was suddenly locked out of the app. I tried to log in on my laptop instead. Same result. My password, which I hadnât changed, no longer worked. No big deal, I thought. Iâd just reset it. Except every time I went through the reset process, Iâd get an email confirming the change, then immediately get a warning that the new password didnât work and that Iâd be locked out for 24 hours after two more attempts. After five rounds of this circus over a month, I gave up.
Although I appreciated the seriousness of Empowerâs security, I was frustrated. Life was busy. Summer rolled around. I took the family to Honolulu for five weeks. Once school started for my kids on August 27, I finally decided it was time to call the helpline (1-877-216-4014, for anyone who finds themselves in my shoes).
After a 7-minute call, I was back in action. The support rep explained that Empower had migrated dashboards to a new system, and some accounts like mine got stuck in a loop. All I had to do was unregister, then re-register with my existing Social Security number and zip code, and voilĂ âI was back in with all my existing linked accounts.
What surprised me most wasnât that it took four months to fix. It was that I didnât feel a strong urge to fix it right away. If I really wanted to, I could have called the helpline immediately.
Itâs not like my net worth was going to vanish just because I wasnât looking at it. I knew the rough numbers in my head alreadyâmy equity exposure, my bond allocation, my real estate value, and so forth. Plus, when the market was tanking in April 2025, I wasnât itching to see the damage anyway. Sometimes, not looking is the best way to stay calm.
It reminded me of social media: the less time you spend scrolling X, Instagram, or Facebook, the happier you tend to be. Checking your net worth too often can be the same type of mental junk food, so I experimented with staying away. Unless you receive a significant financial windfall, your net worth isn’t changing much from day to day.
That said, the four-plus months off taught me something valuable. There are real benefits to not regularly checking your net worth.
Here are five that stood out most.
When markets are down, staring at your net worth daily is like poking at a bruise, it only makes the pain worse.
In March and April, the S&P 500 dropped sharply, and bonds werenât helping much either. Had I been logging in every morning, I would have watched hundreds of thousands in paper losses pile up. Instead, by not logging in, I avoided the day-to-day sting.
Itâs like weighing yourself every day when youâre trying to lose weight. If you fluctuate up and down, itâs demoralizing. But if you only check once a month, youâre more likely to see the real trend and less likely to quit.
Not checking your net worth regularly protects your mental health. You still know roughly where you stand, but you arenât constantly reminding yourself of volatility you canât control.
When I wasnât checking my net worth, I noticed my energy went elsewhere: my kids, my writing, my time in Honolulu visiting my parents. Instead of being distracted by a green or red number on a screen, I was more present. Of course, I still had the urge to check my investment accounts individually from time to time.
Every time you check your finances, you use up some of your limited daily attention. If you check three times a week like I usually do, thatâs over 150 mental interruptions a year. Multiply that by decades, and you realize how much headspace youâve given up.
By not checking, I was forced to focus on what I could control: working on new articles, being with family, and staying healthy. In the end, isnât that why weâre building wealth in the first place?
Letâs be frank, tracking net worth can feel addictive. The little dopamine hit from seeing your portfolio go up is real. It’s why some of us like to gamble. But like all addictions, thereâs a cost.
When your mood is tied too closely to whether the market is up or down, youâve given away control of your happiness. Thatâs dangerous. Unfortunately, I’m always moodier when the stock market is correcting because I’m in charge of the family’s finances. When the finances are going backwards, I can’t help feel like a failure for not better safeguarding our main source of freedom.
By taking four months off, I broke that cycle. I rediscovered that I could go weeks without knowing my âscore,â and life went on just fine. My relationships didnât suffer. My cash flow didnât dry up. The world didnât end.
One of the biggest dangers of constantly checking your finances is the temptation to unnecessarily tinker. You see your portfolio drop and suddenly you want to sell (or buy the dip). You see a hot IPO go up 333% on the first day, and due to intense FOMO, you want to buy at the top.
As the old saying goes, âTime in the market is more powerful than timing the market.â The less you check your net worth and investment portfolios, the less temptation you will have to trade.
This type of overactivity often leads to worse long-term returns. The best investors are usually the ones who set up an allocation and then largely leave it alone.
By not regularly looking for four months, I gave myself a natural âcooling offâ period. I wasnât tempted to make drastic investment decisions. My portfolio allocation stayed largely intact, which is exactly how compounding works best.
Think of it like a farmer. If you dig up your seeds every week to check on them, theyâll never grow. Sometimes, the best move is to leave things buried and let nature do its thing.
The ultimate goal of financial independence is to not worry about money all the time. You want to money money in the background so you can spend time doing the things you really enjoy. If you need to track your net worth daily just to feel secure, youâre not truly free.
During my four-month break, I got an unfamiliar preview of what it feels like to live without constantly measuring. My bills were still paid. My investments still grew (or shrank). Life speed kept accelerating. Our money was taking care of our family, as intended. The less time I spent managing our money, the more rewarding the money felt.
If you want to know whether youâre really financially secure, try not checking your net worth for at least a quarter. If you find yourself panicking, you may be too dependent on external validation. But if you find yourself relaxed, youâre probably in good shape.
This test is powerful. It shows you whether youâve built a fortress solid enough that you can step away without fear. Thatâs real independence.
When you finally check your net worth months later, you might be pleasantly surprised to see a bigger jump in wealth than you expected. Itâs like seeing other peopleâs kids after summer break. Their growth feels dramatic because you werenât watching them inch taller every day. Parents, on the other hand, often hardly notice the change.
After four months away, Iâm back to tracking my net worth closely. Old habits die hard, and I still believe thereâs value in keeping an eye on things, especially for someone like me, who writes about personal finance for a living.
I was happy to finally update the amounts in three private venture capital funds, which had $60,000 worth of capital calls during these four months. I also logged the additional $100,000 I invested in the Fundrise Innovation Fund this year. Private funds are manually tracked in the Empower dashboard.
This time off taught me that balance is key. For most people, checking once or twice a month is ideal. It keeps you informed without letting the numbers dominate your mood.
Personally, Iâm aiming to scale back from three times a week to just once a week. One practical trick? Move the Empower app off your home screen and bury it on page three or four of your phone so youâre not tempted to tap it out of habit.
If youâre in debt or working toward a savings milestone, you might check more frequently for motivation. If youâre already retired or financially independent, you can afford to check less. The important thing is making sure you control the numbers, not the other way around.
I never planned on taking a four-month break from checking my net worth. But thanks to a stubborn login issue plus my own disinterest, I got the unexpected chance to experience life without my usual financial dashboard. And you know what? It was liberating.
If youâre someone who refreshes your portfolio daily, try taking a step back. Go a week, a month, or even four months without looking.
You may find, like I did, that the less you check, the more you actually enjoy your wealth.
Readers, how often do you check your net worth? Do you believe thereâs a strong correlation between frequency and results? After all, people who are obsessed with something often end up getting better at it.
If you have over $100,000 in investable assetsâwhether in savings, taxable accounts, 401(k)s, or IRAsâyou can get a free financial check-up from an Empower financial professional by signing up here. Itâs a no-obligation way to have a seasoned expert, who builds and analyzes portfolios for a living, review your finances.Â
A fresh set of eyes could uncover hidden fees, inefficient allocations, or opportunities to optimizeâgiving you greater clarity and confidence in your financial plan.
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]]>I recently got a cool perk from my employer: $1,000 to invest however I want. The idea behind it is to help everyone at our company get familiar with investing, try out our internal tools, and learn about growing wealth with stocks.
I’ve dabbled in stock picking before — and let’s just say my win/loss ratio isn’t exactly Hall of Fame material.
So with this $1,000, I’m not rolling the dice or doing anything risky. I’m going back to the same boring-but-beautiful approach that’s worked for me all along⌠Index funds.
I could spend hours analyzing charts, earnings reports, and news headlines. But I’ve tried that before and never found it either fun nor profitable.
So rather than chase individual stocks, I’m investing my money into a total stock market index fund — something like VTI (from Vanguard) or FZROX (from Fidelity). These index funds own thousands of companies across every sector, giving me instant diversification.
When the stock market goes up, my investment goes up too. When it drops, yeah, mine drops with it. But over time, the market’s gone up more than it’s gone down.
I’ve got a couple decades left on my investing horizon. So I’m trying to play the long game.
If this $1,000 investment grows at 10% annually (which is in line with the historical average return of the S&P 500) here’s what it could turn into:
|
Years Invested |
Future Value |
|---|---|
|
5 |
$1,610 |
|
10 |
$2,594 |
|
20 |
$6,728 |
|
30 |
$17,449 |
Data source: Author’s calculations.
Of course, markets fluctuate and there are no guarantees. But historically, the U.S. market has bounced back from every downturn — and gone on to hit new highs each time.
So while I’m not saying this $1,000 is destined for exactly $17,449 (let’s not jinx it), I like my chances betting on the market as a whole.
This bonus was wired straight into my brokerage account. I keep most of my investments at Fidelity, because it has no account fees, no trade fees, and a massive menu of index funds I can choose from.
Read my full Fidelity review here if you’re curious why I chose it (and how it stacks up for beginners or long-haulers).
It’s not just this $1,000. I put nearly all my long-term money into index funds.
They’re simple, but also really flexible. Here’s why I love investing in index funds:
Another cool thing is I can automate investments. So putting in new money to invest each month can happen automatically on a set schedule. Easy!
So that’s what I’m doing with my $1,000 bonus — the most boring thing in the world. Putting it into a low-cost index fund and just⌠letting it slowly compound.
This strategy has already panned out well for me over the years, and I’ve got no reason to switch it up now.
If you’re thinking about doing something similar with your own money — whether it’s $100 or $1,000 — you don’t need to overthink it. You just need a setup that’s simple, low cost, and built for the long haul.
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