On 90 Day Fiance, Andrei Castravet throws a surprise party upon arriving in Moldova complete with live music and fireworks. Julia Trubkina is tired of her in laws frequent visits. Kara Bass makes a tough choice regarding Guillermo Rojer. And Gino Palazzolo thrifts and moves on from Jasmine Pineda. Let’s break it all down in this recap of Season 9, Episode 4 A Boy’s Best Friend Is His Mother.

90 Day Fiance: Andrei Castravet Knows How to Party

It’s chaos on 90 Day Fiance as Andrei Castravet packs up his family to travel to Moldova. Elizabeth Potthast Castravet is on board. But complains about all the suitcases and the difficulty of traveling with kids. It turns out Libby was right since the plane ride was tough for their son. And to top it off they arrive to no luggage. Andrei Castravet is thrilled to be back in his childhood home. He noshes on chicken hearts and an endless basket of bread.

On the other hand, Libby finds sharing the small apartment with 6 people impossible. Especially since there is only one bathroom. And construction noise coming from above. Andrei Castravet has something up his sleeve. He’s planned a surprise party at a winery. He’s got something extravagant planned in the hopes of selling her on moving to Moldova permanently. Libby has been brushing up on learning to speak Romanian. But some things still get lost in translation.

Andrei Castravet certainly knows how to throw a party. Libby is stunned by the extravagance of the party. And unsure of the motive behind it. But Andrei leads a champagne toast and draws a huge cheer from the guests when he announces they are moving to Moldova in his native language. Libby senses something is up. Especially when he leads everyone to the roof top for an over the top fireworks display.

90 Day Fiance: Julia Prepares for Her Parent’s Arrival

Happily Ever After couple Brandon Gibbs and Julia Trubkina are fresh from couple’s counseling on The Last Resort. Things are still not up to speed in the bedroom. So, they try a pizza delivery role play session to spice things up. Unfortunately the only thing that delivered was the pizza itself. They argue over various things. Mostly about the arrival of Julia’s parents who are no longer together and will require two separate rooms at the house.

Julia is frustrated that one guest room has been designated for Brandon’s mom Betty. She changes the decor and rips Betty’s things out of drawers. Later, on 90 Day Fiance, plumbing problems arise at the house. While Brandon attempts to fix the drains, his parents arrive. Julia doesn’t hide her annoyance at her in laws arriving. Betty Gibbs isn’t happy that her room has been reassigned for Julia’s family.

Brandon Gibbs starts complaining about Julia to his parents and it’s officially gang up on Julia time. They accuse her of being anti – family. And stalling on her promise to get a second opinion about her fertility issues. Julia’s had enough and goes inside. Betty follows and angrily sips Chardonnay while suggesting she will make the appointment for Julia. But Julia doesn’t want pressure she wants support. And for her in laws to go back to their own home.

TLC Couple Kara and Guillermo Separate

Kara Bass rehearses a performance for her latest Bachata single. She leads a few backup dancers and fills them in on the meaning behind the song. It seems Kara’s singing career is taking off. She’s even traveling to Spain to work with a producer. But Guillermo Rojer struggles with the environment that goes along with performing. He vents to his friend and manager at the restaurant where he works. He feels the drinking and partying don’t jive with their life as young parents.

In the end of the episode, Kara Bass admits the 90 Day Fiance couple has parted ways. She actually asked him to leave. He accused her of cheating after seeing her texting someone and laughing. She denies any wrongdoing. But admits she wouldn’t tell him who she actually was texting. After more fighting she asked him to move out. But cries when she sees reminders around the house of when they were a happy couple.

Happily Ever After: Gino Makes a Bold Move

Gino Palazzolo visits the local thrift shop in Michigan. In his trademark nasally tone he explains his love of secondhand shopping on 90 Day Fiance. He gets a call from Natalie, the woman he met up with in Las Vegas. He models a raccoon cap and a crochet toboggan over FaceTime. And lets her know he told Jasmine Pineda about her and also mentioned that he wants a divorce. Finally he invites Natalie to travel to visit him in Michigan. And she says she would love to.

Jasmine Pineda maintains her innocence. She claims Gino knew of her friendship with Matt. And that she communicated with him about rides to the gym. She’s not happy he’s choosing a divorce. Matt comforts her but secretly he’s glad that Gino wants out. Because it clears the path for him to step in. But Jasmine doesn’t want to think about it. She just wants the comfort of her dog Coco.

90 Day Fiance: Adnan’s Lies Go Up in Smoke

Tigerlily Taylor invites Adnan Abdelfattah to her ultrasound appointment. It will be the first time he will see baby Zeyn on 90 Day Fiance.  Adnan starts driving like a maniac on the freeway. Tigerlily suggests he slow down and be more careful. But he dismisses her and tells her to stop talking. Tigerlily cries. She says he ruined her day. But they calm down enough to go in.

Of course Adnan does not want the male camera men to see Tigerlily’s bare belly doing the procedure. They block the view with partitions. There are plenty of clear and nice shots of the baby. But a stop for lemonade and dessert quickly goes south. It seems Tigerlily saw Adnan sneaking a smoke after the appointment. Something he’d promised to quit. Adnan thinks it’s not a big deal.  Tigerlily is tired of his shady habit. Till next time!

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TLC is ready to talk about sex with a group of virgins.

In the network’s latest original series — appropriately titled Virgins — four adults who have yet to experience sexual intercourse in their 30s and 40s are ready to navigate love, intimacy and self-discovery.

“My sisters actually found this show for me, and they are a big part of my life,” cast member Alex Stunz exclusively shared with Us Weekly. “They wanted me to get into a relationship. … I was like, ‘You know what? I trust you, so let’s give it a go.’ Here we are.”

Every Monday on TLC, viewers watch Alex step outside of his comfort zone and take big steps to finally go all the way — emotionally and physically.

For Rhasha Newkirk, she decided to join the show after experiencing a sexless marriage that ended in divorce.

“I was searching for help, something to get me feeling better about myself,” she told Us, “and they responded.”

As the cast continues to embrace vulnerability in hopes of obtaining confidence, connection and self-love, Rhasha, 42, and Alex, 34, are answering our burning questions about their love lives.

Keep reading to learn more and make sure to watch Virgins on TLC Mondays at 9 p.m. ET.

Why Are Alex and Rhasha Still Virgins?

As explained on Virgins, every participant has their reasons as to why they haven’t had sex just yet.

“I’m one of 10 and I have a different outlook on relationships and life compared to other guys,” Alex said. “I want to make sure that the girl that I’m with has the same respect and care that I want my cousins to deal with or my sisters to deal with.”

Alex said he never liked one-night stands and preferred to develop an emotional relationship before things got physical. “Connect with me,” he explained. “Give me some emotion.”

As for Rhasha, her conservative childhood made her not rush into sexual relationships.

“I think my daddy set the standard,” she said before explaining how past romances affected her. “The most difficult thing for me is feeling like I’m enough. Going from my past marriage, that was a challenge for me. I’m still working on that, but I know my worth, and I know that I am enough.”

What Do Alex and Rhasha’s DMs Look Like Since the Show Started Airing? 

While some reality stars experience an influx of strangers trying to grab their attention on social media, both Rhasha and Alex said they haven’t experienced anything too crazy.

“My DMs — surprise — are still dry,” Rhasha said.

Alex added, “I do have DMs from some women, and then some men congratulated me and asked for advice because they might be in the same boat. But I’ve gotten some DMs from some women. It’s crazy.”

Is There Pressure to Take the Next Steps After the Show?

Since participating in the show, Alex admits that dating can be a “little tough.” At the same time, he’s proud to put himself out there and explore relationships.

“There’s so many things that go through your mind, and like I said in the show, I’m an overthinker,” Alex said. “I don’t want to overthink it, but it just happens.”

Rhasha added, “Oh, my goodness. I feel the same way. It is something that happened and I feel good about it, and I’m going to take it day by day and we’ll see.”

What Are the Biggest Misconceptions About Being a Virgin?

From Alex’s perspective, there doesn’t need to be a timetable for when people begin to experience intimacy.

“You don’t need to rush it. Take your time,” he told Us. “There’s no rule that says you have to lose [your virginity] in high school. There’s no rule that says you have to lose [it] in college. It’s when you are ready. Don’t get peer pressured by your friends at a young age.”

What Do Alex and Rhasha Want in Their Next Relationships? 

“My non-negotiables are I don’t want somebody who does not prioritize the relationship,” Rhasha declared to Us. “I don’t want someone who does not see me as a queen.”

Alex added, “I’m a social person. I’m goofy. Joke around with me, have fun with me. When it’s time to be serious, cool.”

Sister Wives star Kody Brown tends to paint a picture of life in the colors that suit him at the time, and Christine Brown called him on one of his recent embellishments in the last One-on-One from Season 19.

Kody got all emotional when talking about meeting Robyn, and he said he had never felt like that before. But he seems to forget he told a different story years back, and it’s documented in his own words.

Sister Wives: Kody Brown Shoots Fireworks More Than Once

On the last Sister Wives episode of the season, Kody Brown became overwhelmed with emotion talking about Robyn Brown. A trip down memory lane had Kody telling a one-of-a-kind story, or so he said.

Lightning struck, and fireworks went off, for the man with ringlets. It was an amazing connection Kody felt with Robyn Brown, even without laying a hand on her. But here is the kicker: Kody tells Suki his reaction to Robyn is the first and only time he felt that way.

Suki showed this Sister Wives clip to Christine Brown Woolley, who was stunned to hear Kody attach this reaction to Robyn and Robyn only. He tells Suki he never felt like this with any of his other wives. But Christine remembers differently.

Christine Brown Woolley Blows Up…

Christine did the Sister Wives One-on-Ones with her husband, David Woolley, by her side. She blew up when she saw Kody’s tears of emotion while saying none of the other wives made him feel that way.

Christine squirmed a little as she blasted that clip as false. She took a stance that almost looked like, “How dare he!” At first Christine looked as if she was still a bit jealous over Kody holding Robyn above the other woman.

Kody had just said to Suki that Christine has to stop comparing herself to Robyn. Then when Christine took offense to what Kody was saying about being so awestruck by Robyn, it was like it pushed Christine’s buttons.

Sister Wives: Is Christine Still Jealous—Or Does She Know the Truth?

Sister Wives fans were stunned that Christine became so adamant about this not being true, with David right next to her. It has to be hard on this new husband to listen to all this rehashing of the old husband.

But David seems like a real trooper and very much in love with Christine. While many times what we hear from Kody and his ex-wives boils down to he-said-she-said.

So, at times, Sister Wives fans think the truth falls somewhere in the middle. But not this time… Christine remembered correctly, where it seems Kody didn’t.

The Written Truth From Kody About Christine

Christine has proof that Kody was rewriting history about his immediate feelings for Robyn. He claimed he felt something with Robyn that he didn’t feel when first meeting the other wives.

In a book the Sister Wives spouses penned several years ago, Kody gives that same kind of drooling talk about meeting Christine.

From the book “Becoming Sister Wives—The Story of an Unconventional Marriage,” Kody pours out his emotions. When first meeting Christine, Kody writes, “There was an undeniable spark between us.”

Kody even remembered what Christine was wearing the first time he saw her. He also said that he knew right away she would be his wife one day. He was quite enamored by her.

Sister Wives: Meri Growls and Kody Put the Brakes On

Kody was a newlywed with Meri at the time he first met Christine, so he wasn’t wife hunting to start his Sister Wives family just yet. In fact, when Christine yelled out praise for Kody at one of the church outings, Kody said he could hear Meri “growling.” She wasn’t ready for wife number two either.

But then wife number two turned out to be Janelle, and Christine made it into the Sister Wives plural marriage later down the line as the third bride. She was also Kody’s last wife for a couple of decades until Robyn came along.

So, there you have it; Christine might have seemed a little jealous over Kody declaring a lightning bolt struck him over Robyn. But Christine was right. She said Kody described seeing her for the first time the same way he described his eyes meeting Robyn’s from across the church.

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